How time flies! I have been in Ming school for nearly two months before I know it. Before that, I knew nothing about new learning and Ming learning, except that it was an educational institution similar to Confucian classics, but not as rigid as Confucian classics.

I chose Mingming mainly because I heard that Uncle Mingming can exercise and improve himself, and the growth and learning atmosphere there is better than that of vocational schools with system technology. Because I am still willing to grow and improve myself, I came here through the recommendation of a teacher and the assessment of my seniors.

But in just two months, my attitude and all aspects have changed and I have made a breakthrough. Let's take a look at my growth in heming Academy in the past two months.

First, the change of mentality, happy experience.

When I first came, I didn't like it very much, but I didn't hate it either. I just feel fit to improve myself, so I have to stay here. My mentality is very passive and I have no other choice.

But after two months of study, growth and breakthrough, I gradually like it, and I am eager to stay here.

I like the teachers here. Han Yu said "teacher, preacher". What is "preaching"? It tells you a spirit, conveys your values, teaches you some basic principles of being a man and doing things, and spreads the truth. "Teaching" is to teach you a skill and let you have a skill that can adapt to social survival. "Mystery" means that there are many unsolved mysteries in your heart. The teacher can use his life experience and his superior knowledge to answer your questions and let you know a higher and farther realm. Heming's teacher has become a real teacher. In order to solve students' problems, Mr. Wu sometimes communicates with us late into the night.

I also like my classmates here, and I like the feeling that everyone is United and enterprising in both study and sports.

Study: For example, in the recent oral English situational competition, students in each group are trying their best to get high marks for their teams. The team leader is not only strong in leadership, but also responsible. He will help team members to screen manuscripts, and he will take pains to teach us to read and correct words for us. There are many similar school activities. In short, I found the happiness of learning English here for the first time, and I felt that learning could be so happy for the first time.

Sports: For example, the team relay race, I used to dislike or even be a little afraid of such activities, because no matter in the institutional school or the Bible study school, there will always be classmates accusing you of having problems when you experience similar activities, but there is no such situation here, only the classmates give you constant encouragement and applause. You can feel happy during the competition. Even if some movements are very tired, with the encouragement of your classmates, you will not only feel tired, but also feel lucky and grateful to meet such classmates. It is also the first time that I have found happiness in such a competition.

Such teachers and classmates are hard to meet in institutions and schools outside, and this feeling is something I have never experienced before.

Secondly, the ingenious curriculum design helped me.

1, training course on monistic thinking mode

Monism thinking is a complete and interlocking causal chain thinking mode and a linear thinking mode. It can be thought one by one, closely linked and interdependent. As long as we grasp one of the links, we can deduce the invisible link. You can speculate on the past or guide the future-it's on the same line. It is an important weapon and means for human beings to know the outside world and an important way of thinking for human beings to face and solve the relationship between man and nature. Therefore, the unitary way of thinking is to establish a set of orderly direction and basic logical thinking ability, which is also the most basic way of thinking.

But not born with this mode of thinking. The heart born is chaotic and has no direction. You need a good basic education to cultivate it. However, China's current mass education basically does not systematically cultivate this mode of thinking, but only cultivates a group of dolls who work for developed countries. Therefore, the thinking mode of most people in China is a chaotic thinking system of "nothing is nothing" and a "kite thinking mode with broken lines". Therefore, many people often criticize China people for "having no common sense" because they lack the education of unitary thinking.

In the future, we will pick out the loopholes in the film and the meaning (metaphor) that the author wants to express through film classes, watching movies, teachers' explanations, etc., and link the film with our growth and life to exercise and enhance our thinking and horizons.

For example, "20 12", when I watch it alone, I will only find it very impactful and beautiful. However, when the teacher leads us to watch, we will find that there are actually many scenes in this film that are metaphors of various bad behaviors of China people. For example, when I watch this foreign film alone, I feel that foreigners looking for China artificial spacecraft is a good compliment to China people's high efficiency and hard work, but in fact this clip is a metaphor that China people don't have good brains and high ideas, but they can only do some manual work.

We will also improve our mind and thinking through reading, read high-level books, make ourselves holographic people, and increase the experience of our soul and the thickness of our life through other people's stories and lives (using other people's experiences to complete our sublimation and experience through other people's experiences).

2. Theme class: Gender issues

Gender relations can make or break us. When we make good use of it, it will bring us great strength and become our strong backing. When we make bad use of it, it will cause us lifelong pain and shadow.

According to statistics, in the current institutional schools, the love rate of junior high school and senior high school is 50% (at least half of people in a school have been in love or are in love), and the love rate of universities is over 80%, so we also call universities "ipartment".

What's the harm of entering the relationship too early? Let's look at a set of data: there are about 50 million abortions in the world every year, among which China ranks first in the world with 6,543,800+0,300. In 265438+2008, there were more than 9 million abortions in various regions of China (excluding some small clinics that were not officially registered). It is estimated that the real number is120,000-130,000, which means that the average number of abortions per day is more than 30,000; Hours: 1250 people; Every minute: 24 people, of whom underage women account for about 60%. Moreover, abortion is extremely harmful to women's health, from some diseases that will not die or lifelong infertility to depression and death or cancer.

Today's teenagers urgently need these courses, but now there are no such courses in institutional schools, and parents do not give their children the correct tips at their important ages, which leads to the emergence of the above data. But the next day, just at the age, the teacher set the right course and gave us good suggestions and answers, such as

How to rationally face the relationship between men and women?

Your pursuit determines your views and concepts on gender relations. Just like marriage now, if you don't have a high-level life pursuit, your other half and you are just "symbiotic partners" in the survival mode (through marriage, it is difficult for you to have a common spiritual pursuit, and some even rely on children and bodies to contact the other half. If you have a high-level pursuit in life, you and your spouse are "soul mates" (they have the same soul pursuit and spiritual pursuit and can surpass many things). You don't need anything external, but you will also be closely linked because you have the same pursuit and values.

What can I do to be happier in the face of sexual relations?

1, we don't fall in love when we are teenagers, because at this time, we are in an ignorant adolescence and a period of intense hormone eruption. If you enter sexual relations at this stage, it is difficult to control yourself rationally, such as the number of abortions, of which minors account for 60%. Secondly, the development space will be limited, and even we can only be housewives all our lives. Therefore, it is safe to fall in love after the age of 24 and improve yourself before that. 2. Being quiet and beneficial for women is "quiet" to pursue inner peace and quiet? "Hui" is virtuous and learns to be a man and do things. This requires wisdom and cultivation, learning to analyze and judge, and facing irrationality with rationality.

And these teachings can effectively help us avoid some serious problems.

Third, experience real growth from the breakthrough.

Before, I was a dreamer. I have always fantasized about my future in my mind, but I have never made any substantive actions in real life. In Heming School, however, I actually made behaviors and challenges that I had never imagined before, and realized real self-growth.

For example: my first active speech; Performing in English for the first time; Successfully challenged wrestling 10 for the first time; The first challenge to Eagle is 1 hour 20 minutes; The first time I took the initiative to challenge the 2-hour 1000 bobby jump, I didn't succeed. I only made 800.

Although there are still some shortcomings in these challenges, I am already satisfied, because I have now started real actions, started to get rid of my previous illusion and sleepwalking personality, and started a real journey of growth.

Human nature is like water, with ups and downs. I believe that as long as I go against my humanity and jump out of my comfort zone, I will definitely become the person I want to be.