Good habits help children grow up healthily and happily. Cultivate good habits from the age of two or three, such as not being picky about food, watching electronic products and watching the specified time, going to bed and getting up on time, etc. Accompany children to read books, recite children's songs, recite ancient poems and play games every day, guide them to do what they can, teach them to share, correct their mistakes and cultivate their strong will and character.
2, family education ≠ homework education
Nowadays, the study pressure of students is increasing day by day. In the eyes of some parents, children's education is only homework, scores and rankings. There are too many more meaningful and valuable things in children's life growth journey.
Parents' demonstration and guidance, parents' own knowledge and positive energy are the most effective resources for educating children. Eyes only on the parents of Tsinghua, Peking University, not a good parent. A warm heart and companionship are what a good parent should look like.
3. Cultivate the character and ability that will affect children's life.
Cultivate children's ability to work and live. When our children were young, my grandmother lived with our family. Old people live a hard life and are very diligent. They always take a cloth bag when they go out. When he sees plastic bottles and paper shells, he always picks them up and sells them separately.
My daughter has been exposed to it since she was a child, so she usually spends money carefully. And since kindergarten, she has washed her own socks and then started washing her own clothes. Now she makes jiaozi and steamed buns by herself very well.
4. Create a good learning environment and pay attention to words and deeds.
Strive to create a good learning environment for children. Independent learning space; A table with appropriate equipment; A bookshelf; At least one hundred books; Subscribe to a magazine every year; Buy a book every month; Parents and children read a book together every semester; Have a fixed parent-child reading time every week; There is a parent-child reading exchange meeting once a week; Visit at least one exhibition or museum or science museum every semester.
We should always get in touch with children's teachers, learn about children's learning, communicate educational methods with teachers, and discuss good educational strategies together, so that family education and school education can form a joint force and promote children's all-round and harmonious development. At the same time, pay attention to words and deeds. Walk into the world of learning with children, look at the stars, admire the moon and feel the poetic life.
Precautions:
1. Family is the first school in life, and parents are the first teachers of children. It is very important for parents to help their children button their first button in life.
2. Parents should first learn by themselves, learn the scientific concepts and new knowledge of family education, and constantly improve their literacy and parenting ability. Parents should understand that education is not just literacy, reading, counting and so on. It also includes children's behavior, perception and cognition.