1, parental tyranny. Parents over-trust their authority and practise autocracy at home, that is, everything in the family is decided by adults (parents) without consulting their children. For example, don't enroll children in cram schools, don't ask children what they think, instill adults' ideas in children, impose adults' will on children, don't let children decide their own affairs, listen to adults' arrangements, don't let children talk when entertaining relatives and friends, and severely criticize or even scold children when they are dissatisfied with their parents' practices. ......
2. Parents' arrangement. Nowadays, many families are only children, which is really "afraid of falling into their hands and melting into their mouths". Parents do everything for their children, making their self-care ability worse and worse.
3. excessive comparison. Compare your own children with others' children, and then say "whose children are obedient" and so on. It will only make children dissatisfied and disgusted with their parents and hurt their self-esteem.
4. Praise too much. Many parents like to praise their children, thinking that this can enhance their self-confidence. If the child only completes some trivial or trivial things, parents will praise him, which will make the child have negative emotions. Experts believe that parents may make their children stop studying hard and don't know how much they need to pay to achieve real success.
5. Pay attention to children's performance. Many parents always judge their children's intelligence by their grades. Parents think that the most important thing for children is learning, and nothing else, thus ignoring the cultivation of children's character. Children who study under the pressure of their parents will make them feel tired of learning.
6. Don't lead by example. Children fight with others outside, and when they get home, they are criticized and violently attacked by their parents, who fail to set a good example for their children.
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