Parents can't educate their children, and their growth is greatly influenced by the environment. Parents should unite with their children to overcome difficulties. Educating your baby requires parents to have good literacy first. Parents can't just scold their children Shared parents can't educate their children now.

What if parents don't educate their children? 1 A family with educated parents is more important than money. After all, the money will run out. Social education is different. Social education can bring many things to children, which can make children have good quality, good behavior habits and good personality, and can benefit children for life and even be passed down from generation to generation.

I am surrounded by such a family, a family, five children, four daughters and a son. My father is an ordinary maintenance worker and my mother has never been to school and can't read. She has no job and takes care of the children at home full-time. The family is poor, but such a family is well-known in our country, because all five children have at least a bachelor's degree, and the youngest son was sent to Peking University for a master's degree for three years after finishing his undergraduate course.

Many people came to learn from the scriptures and asked how the mother educated these promising children. The mother always said modestly, "I don't know a word. My children are very obedient and willing to cooperate."

Is it really because children are willing to cooperate? Of course not. Mother's three views are correct. She cultivated their independent personality when they were young, and told them very early: "Mom has no chance to study, and it is not easy for Dad to make money to support you. So many of you have to pay tuition fees to study, so you must cherish it, so as to change your destiny. If you get good grades, your parents will let you go to school, but if you don't try to give up this opportunity, you won't be admitted. "

Several children are particularly competitive, and the learning atmosphere at home is also very good. Several daughters have gone to college, and the son is still studying for a doctorate in the United States. Many people advised her: "With such a son, why are you willing to let him go to such a far place to study? Why do these daughters read such high books?" Come out and let them go to work in the factory. You needn't work so hard. Girls get married after school. Can you help others raise a wife? "

This mother has always been the same answer: "If a child is admitted, he should be allowed to study. Reading can change their fate. It doesn't matter how poor and bitter I am now, but if I don't educate my children now, they will have to work in the factory all their lives and never leave the village. I will regret it for the rest of my life. Poverty is only temporary. "

Sure enough, several daughters are also very competitive, and they all have scholarships to study. Later, after graduation, some daughters became teachers, some started companies, and some entered foreign trade companies, all of which had good jobs. My son is still studying for a doctorate in the United States, and now she can enjoy her old age without having to work so hard as when she was young.

Imagine if that uneducated mother just wants her daughter to come out to work early to share the family burden and prevent them from studying. Like many rural girls, she worked in a factory in her teens and got married and had children in her twenties. Is their life a different scene? I think her children must be grateful to have such a pair of illiterate, poor but educated parents.

Just like the Qiao family in Little Joy, although Joe's mother is a teacher and has taught many students, she can't educate her children, which eventually leads to Eiko's depression and almost commits suicide by jumping into the sea. So parents should not only teach their children, but also know how to educate them. Only by educating children correctly can their life path be more exciting!

Parents can't teach their children what to do. 2 Appreciate children and affirm them.

In the eyes of parents, education is full of hope. With the appreciation of parents, children feel happy, their confidence is doubled, their hearts are full of happiness, and it is easier to accept their parents' opinions and overcome their own minor problems. If parents just criticize and blame their children blindly, it will not only affect their emotions, but also make them fall into the quagmire of inferiority.

Get down and be patient.

In an equal communication atmosphere, children are more willing to accept their parents' views, which is also conducive to the positive transmission of educational information. In the face of stubborn children, parents should be patient and don't play hardball with them. Parents should not be afraid of losing face in front of their children, be willing to put down their airs in front of their children, be patient, learn to "squat" down and talk to their children, learn to listen to their voices, and treat them in a democratic and equal way. Maybe just a few minutes, a few warm words and a few gentle touches, the child's heart knot has been untied.

The foundation of educating children is communication, but parents should not be eager for quick success!

Parents' suggestions on educating their children:

1, the main factor affecting children's grades is not school, but family.

2. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children are likely to become "problem children" at school.

3. For children with good grades, the mother is usually a planned and agile person. The more serious, organized and polite a father is, the better his children's grades will be.

Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer it is, the better it is for children's growth. Parents need to provide their children with basic cultural materials to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority.

5. Richness is another resource of higher education. The experience of westerners is: "It takes three generations to train a noble." "Class is hereditary." However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth.

6. Don't be a knowledgeable and uneducated parent. Some people have received higher education, but they are not necessarily literate. If parents don't know how to live, treat others well, or even treat their children well, then no matter how high their academic level is, they are uneducated.

7. Parents can regard their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that parents should also live an independent life. If parents are completely child-centered and have no theme of their own lives, such parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it's not that children can't live without their parents, but that parents can't live without their children.

8. Parents need to take the responsibility of educating their children, but don't completely cancel their leisure life because of educating their children. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much sense of responsibility hurts yourself."

9. If parents quickly pick up their children when they cry, then children will take advantage of this feature of their parents and constantly pester their parents to make more demands. Therefore, the child cried, don't rush to pick it up, parents had better let themselves have something to do, and let the children watch themselves and do things quickly.

10, the relationship between husband and wife affects the child's personality. If a man doesn't respect his wife, then his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman doesn't respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school.

Education is to cultivate people's mental outlook. The mission of parents and teachers is to make children gradually take responsibility for their mental outlook, get rid of all kinds of filth that may be polluted, cultivate spiritual "seeds" on people, and make people breathe alpine air and hold their heads high.

12, educated parents are Voltaire, "I don't agree with your point of view, but I will defend your right to speak to the death". They began to reason with their children from the day they were born and patiently asked for their opinions. Don't expect children to learn to obey by beating and cursing. As a result of killing chickens for monkeys, monkeys also learned to kill chickens.

13, let children become passionate and rational people. "Without passion, no great cause will have a good start; Without reason, no feat will have a good ending. "

14. Let your children become educated people. Education begins with punctuality, queuing, not talking loudly in public and not getting angry easily.

15, kind. If your child is kind, please don't laugh at his weakness. People who like to take advantage of small things often suffer big losses because they are rejected by others. He who is willing to suffer a small loss will take a big advantage in the future, because he is liked by people.

What if parents don't educate their children? 1. Parents' role models are very important.

Parents' words and deeds, every move, and how to deal with the relationship between relatives, friends and colleagues, ways and means, children can see in their eyes and remember in their hearts. Whether parents treat their elders with respect, whether they are polite and educated to others, children are imitating and learning. Therefore, in daily life, parents should be as educated and educated as possible in front of their children, respecting the old and loving the young. When you don't control your anger, speak ill of your elders or children, or make a scene, you should make it clear to your children afterwards, or sincerely apologize to them.

Second, it is important for parents to live in harmony.

Because my wife is more capable and strong, I usually choose tolerance for the sake of family harmony. However, my wife's education level is relatively low, and she will only use the parenting methods left by her ancestors, or just teach me according to the ideas and ideas taught by my parents. Then contradictions and problems came, conflicts, differences, persuasion, and exhausted ways to explore. During my daughter's different periods, I bought a lot of books from bookstores, exchanged studies with my wife on a regular basis, and constantly practiced, reflected and summarized in the process of parenting.

Third, parents' study is very important.

There are no children who cannot be educated, only parents who cannot be educated. But when you become a parent, you are not born to teach, nor are you born to teach well. Parents need to study, analyze, summarize and review constantly in the daily process of raising their children. Parents should also communicate regularly, and strive to create a warm and harmonious family environment, so that this family is full of love and joy. The process of parents' efforts to learn parenting knowledge is actually a role model for children.

Fourth, it is important for parents to be good at communicating with their children.

Why don't children dear dad? In the children's world, if the father doesn't play with the children, make friends with the children, can't spare time to accompany the children, and only concentrate on his work every day, no matter whether he is in a meeting or on a business trip, the children will definitely become more and more unfamiliar with his father. How can you let a child kiss you? In the process of communicating with your child, don't comment on what the child said, but encourage her to express her feelings and don't ignore her feelings.

There are no children who cannot be educated, only parents who cannot be educated. How to educate children in the right way and how to get along with the people they love correctly, parents should keep learning, summarizing and thinking. Rome wasn't built in a day, and no successful parenting parent can do it overnight. After countless times of practice, reflection and summary, they have made continuous efforts on the road of parenting.