On Children's Etiquette Education
First, the problems in children's etiquette education
(A) Parents neglect the etiquette education for their children in family education.
Today's children are spoiled by the little princess, the little emperor and their parents, so that they have formed arrogant, selfish, rude, greedy, lazy and irritable personality characteristics. They have no idea what manners and manners are. In public places and daily life, we can easily find littering, swearing, civility and indifference. Therefore, we must face up to the seriousness of this problem, etiquette education is imminent, and it is the key to find out the reasons and prescribe the right medicine.
(B) lack of attention to etiquette education
Some teachers pay more attention to the cultivation of knowledge, and etiquette education has become a neglected link in education. Teachers in this field should not ignore it. They should seize the little things in life and give their children random education.
Second, the solution strategy for the above situation
(1) Actively communicate with parents to provide a good family education atmosphere for children.
Family education directly affects the formation of children's behavior habits. Parents' daily behavior will exert a subtle influence on their children. Some parents often say hello to teachers, and children will take the initiative to say hello to teachers. Parents who don't say hello to their teachers will also leave coldly. For example, after school, we often see parents pick up their children and leave. The child left in a hurry before saying hello to the teacher, and the child was busy following his parents, and this phenomenon is not one or two. In order for this situation to have
In order to be better, we praised the children who politely greeted the teacher through the morning conversation and the timetable of leaving the park. At the same time, we encourage other children to say hello politely. After school, some children do not follow their parents directly, but hold their parents' hands and say hello to the teacher. Goodbye, teacher. We give our children a positive look. When parents saw it, they realized that they were too anxious, ignored the education in this area and smiled at us. They stopped to talk to us and we chatted.
The performance of children in the park also shows that parents should spare more time to pay attention to the cultivation of children's etiquette education, and setting an example is the best way of education. My parents also cooperated with us and accepted our opinions gladly. We praise the progressive children and hope that they will continue to develop this polite habit in the future. At home, children will also say: Is that what the teacher taught us? Therefore, our behavior directly affects the growth of children, and we should set a good example for children.
We also use parents' garden, home contact bar, home-school passepartout and other ways to let parents know the importance of civilized etiquette education to their children and the civilized behavior of children in the garden, so that parents can raise their awareness in this regard and let their children receive this kind of education at home, forming a good family education atmosphere.
(2) Civilization consciousness is integrated into daily life, and the nuances see the truth.
Our teacher often asks children to be polite. When others help you, you should say: thank you? Say hello to people and ask: Hello! ? Inadvertently moved to someone saying:? I'm sorry! ? However, its own exemplary role is also very important.
When I washed my hands this morning, I rolled up my sleeves for Zhou Jiayun. She said to me, Thank you? I responded:? You're welcome She smiled at me and said to the children next to her. The teacher told me you're welcome. ? Then when I pull the sleeves for other children, they will say:? Thank you? Yes, I will reply in time:? You're welcome Once I took my children to play with tires and saw that there was no naughty phenomenon between them. I sat on the tire and watched the children play. At this moment, Yang came over and slapped me on the back. Thank you? I was moved to say that she smiled happily? You're welcome I'm glad to see the happy smile on her face.
I didn't expect the teacher's words? Thank you? Will make children so happy, perhaps from this sentence, I realized the teacher's respect for them! From this incident, I realized how important the teacher's words and deeds are to children, and urged me to pay attention to my words and deeds all the time, try my best to set a good example for children, enhance their awareness of civilization, and let children learn to care about their peers, respect others and love their small groups. Therefore, between teachers and children, teachers should pay attention to dialogue and use more polite expressions to influence children with their own charm and improve the effectiveness of civilized etiquette education.
(three) to carry out a series of etiquette theme activities, to consolidate the civilized manners.
It is impossible to cultivate children's polite habits overnight. We should start from the details bit by bit, one stroke and one style. The garden organized a vivid theme activity to encourage our young teachers to choose a theme from the aspect of civilized etiquette education, write a lesson plan and show it to everyone. It is not only to improve children's awareness of civilization, but also a valuable opportunity for our young teachers to exercise. In view of some uncivilized, unfriendly and indifferent phenomena in life, we have carried out activities such as "Please let me help you", "Quiet" and "Sorry, it doesn't matter" to help children consolidate civilized and polite behaviors and language. By playing games, children can experience the role of sympathizing with others, caring for others and helping others, immerse themselves in the scene and learn to use civilized language and etiquette in real and natural communication.
(4) execution? Polite? Project research activities, entertaining, highlighting the characteristics.
A good civilized and polite environment can subtly promote the cultivation of children's civilized behavior habits. Has kindergarten started yet? Polite? Project research activities to evaluate children's polite behavior in life? Beautiful little angel, clever little angel? This novel idea attracts children's attention and improves their enthusiasm for participating in activities. Children also have a kind of self-restraint about their usual performance. In the appraisal, they read out the requirements and objectives of the appraisal, and let the children think about which children have done this, which children should be chosen, and know fairly well. We ask each child to choose a child who usually performs well in his mind, which is fair and just, and will not discourage the child's enthusiasm for future assessment. Small train? In school, as an example for children to learn, encourage children to be competitive? Little angel of civilization? .
(5) Cultivate children's good behavior habits in daily game activities.
Games are children's leading activities and children's favorite activities. Children play various roles in the game and learn various social norms and codes of conduct. Teachers should seize every opportunity to educate their children on civilized behavior during the game, seize the favorable opportunity, conduct random education in time, consolidate some good moral behaviors and overcome some bad behaviors and motives. For example, the doll's house is a mess. There are some things to eat and use on the ground. I saw two children, MengMeng and Yao Yao, pulling them? Doll? Clothes, while arguing. MengMeng and F are both tight? Doll? Beyond each other. After seeing me coming, MengMeng said? Teacher, I took this doll first. I am the doll's mother. ? Yao Yao is not to be outdone: Teacher, I also want to be a doll's mother. ? At this time, what about the doll's family Dad? Xixi said to me: Teacher, MengMeng is the doll's mother. Yao Yao is not. She is grandma. ? I touched Yao Yao's head. Yao Yao, can you tell me what's going on? Yao Yao didn't speak and bowed his head. Tell the teacher and see if I can help you. She pouted and said, I want to feed the doll, but MengMeng and Xixi won't let me. I'm very angry. I see. They won't let you feed them, and there's something wrong with them, but you throw things away when you get angry. Do you think you are right? If you tell the teacher and the children about it, I think everyone will help you! ? She lowered her head, I asked her to clean up, and other children also helped her clean up, so I told her: Who do you want to thank? Who helped you pack? Yao Yao said to the person who helped her, Thank you? The other children smiled and said to her, You're welcome? With the help of her peers, she began to play with children again.
In the doll's house game, because Yao Yao was snubbed by other companions, she vented her bad feelings by throwing things, without expressing her thoughts and feelings, which led to bad emotions and behaviors. Emotion has an extremely important influence on children's physical growth and development. When children encounter troubles in kindergarten life and study, they can talk and share with teachers or children, then children will always maintain a normal psychological state, which will promote the harmonious development of children's body and mind, and children will also develop good behavior habits.
This happens in the game. I think teachers should first treat children's behavior correctly, not immediately deny them, then guide them, learn to express their feelings in an appropriate way, restrain their behavior and solve problems in an appropriate way. Through this random educational guidance, not only the game plot is enriched, but also the good behavior of children is effectively promoted.
Children are the future and hope of the motherland. Cultivating children's civilized behavior will make them better adapt to the needs of this rapidly developing modern society in the near future. Cultivating children's polite habits from an early age and learning to speak polite language are conducive to children's development and growth.