Parents' classroom experience I
Children's education has been bothering many families. What makes parents crazy is that children are obviously smart but always have unsatisfactory exam results. It is true that children's education is the top priority for us guys, which is heavier than any task. I learned a lot from watching the parents' class.
Both mothers and fathers will inevitably feel confused when educating their children. It depends on how we face it and consider our own wisdom. We will have a lot of experience and experience in fighting with our children. I don't think we should expect too much from children, because the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment, but we should keep a low profile and get along with children. After reading. It is true that we are not saints, and we should not blindly copy the family education of the president or the richest man, because there are many social factors and historical coincidences in the life trajectories of the president and the richest man, and their family education model has been exaggerated or exaggerated by future generations. I think we should learn to treat children sincerely from the details of life. The children's future performance in society is our epitome. When children behave badly, we have no right to blame them, because their performance is precisely our goal and result, whether good or bad.
So how should we communicate with children? I'm afraid I have to think for myself! I often hear some teachers say that children's learning goals are lacking, and reading seems to be a burden, and they won't even read more than one page. This involves the cultivation of hobbies. Hobbies are different from habits. Children will unconsciously pay attention to what they like, even if it seems to us that children are difficult to complete. They all have ways to do it well. On the contrary, if you are not interested, all orders are in vain.
Parents' classroom experience II
Before the National Day holiday, my daughter brought back the book Parents' Classroom for me to read. ?
After reading it during the holiday, I benefited a lot, and I also found many shortcomings in my own education of children, which can be corrected in time. ?
Paying attention to children's moral education and teaching children to learn to be human are the unshirkable responsibilities of families and society, and families are particularly important. The foundation of family education is the education of "virtue", because "virtue" is the foundation and soul of human beings. Without it, human life will be affected. Children grow up healthily around them, deeply influenced by their parents' conscious and unconscious words and deeds, and learn to be human according to their parents' living habits and concepts. The quality of children's moral character is formed in the family, manifested in the school and in the society. The purpose of the school is to organize and have special teachers to carry out comprehensive education in a planned and purposeful way. Therefore, family education focuses on morality, supplemented by talents, so that children can be mentally healthy, have good moral quality, adapt to society and schools, have a good learning foundation and environment at school, and provide superior growth environment for children. ?
Teach children to care, learn to be a man, consciously guide children to correctly handle and face people, things and society, know how to respect the old and love the young, and put all virtues and filial piety first. Do things with perseverance, perseverance and self-confidence, tap the potential of children, "I can do it" in the face of difficulties, face them positively, eliminate the fear of difficulties, cultivate his spirit of exploration, and be modest and brave. At the same time, we should cultivate children's honest quality, be honest and trustworthy, have a strong sense of responsibility, correct mistakes, be upright and be practical. ?
Cultivate children's good habits mainly from the following five aspects:
First, self-care ability. Require children to be independent from kindergarten? It takes a lot of practice to "tidy up the schoolbag", "make the bed" and "fold clothes and trousers", but parents arrange too many things, which often inhibits the development of children's personality and hinders their growth. Parents should focus on long-term goals and let their children do their own things. ?
Second, housework and public welfare work. From the point of view of life, labor is a kind of capital that serves the people, and it is also the basic way and important condition to realize the value of life. Labor is everyone's means of livelihood, and it is a kind of ability to survive and live. Cultivating children's concept of loving labor and regarding labor as a virtue requires parents to teach by example, unremitting guidance and supervision, and gradually develop and master it. Therefore, as parents of children, while disciplining their children to learn cultural knowledge, they should also arrange housework as purposefully as possible, encourage their children to actively participate in public welfare work, and let them become good children who love their work and have a sense of honor and intimacy. ?
Third, practical ability. Because children are in a period of long body and long knowledge, let them use their hands and brains to integrate theory with practice, which can not only enrich knowledge, improve their ability to analyze and solve problems, but also hone their tenacious will. Parents should encourage their children to do more work, cultivate their creativity through hands-on labor, and learn to contribute to society and serve others with their own creative achievements.
Fourth, health and living habits. A person's health and living habits reflect the most basic qualities of this person. Hygiene and living habits directly affect children's study, physical health and first impression on others. Good hygiene habits and living habits must be cultivated from an early age. The correct posture of watching TV, the time of getting up every day, washing hands before and after meals, dressing neatly, washing your hair and cutting your hair frequently are clearly defined. These regulations and requirements can only be checked and evaluated regularly or irregularly after the end of teaching. The usual performance is mainly reflected at home, and the parents of the children witness it clearly. Therefore, the specific guidance and timely supervision of parents is better than the education of school teachers. Only when families and schools cooperate with each other and work together can children develop good hygiene habits and living habits. ?
Fifth, respect the old and love the young. Parents are role models for their children, so they should set an example. Parents, as well as children, should set an example and start from themselves if they want their children to develop the good habit of respecting their elders and others. For example, if you are busy at work and have no time to take care of the elderly, you can take your children to visit your parents and have dinner with them during the holidays. When parents celebrate birthdays or major festivals, they can seize the opportunity to buy some gifts and often call their parents to ask about their physical condition; When getting on and off the bus, let the elderly with mobility difficulties get on and off first. When there is no space on the bus, you can give your seat to the elderly. These things can also be done in front of children, so that they can also understand how parents respect the elderly and respect their parents. The children learned to respect the elderly imperceptibly. Chat with children ten minutes before going to bed, tell them some little stories about respecting the old and loving the young, and learn to be a man from the stories. ?
In addition to the above four aspects, our parents should also remember six "no's" when educating their children. Not used to, not used to, don't move, don't just, don't fight, don't scold. Children should not like them too much, and make them feel that our parents should take them as the center. Many parents will ask why we can't beat and scold. Nowadays, children have strong self-esteem and are influenced by their surroundings. The more we beat and scold them, the more rebellious they become. Therefore, we must be patient, set an example, start from ourselves and let the children understand. ?
After reading the book "Parents' Classroom", I realized my own shortcomings in tutoring children or other aspects, and deeply realized that campus is the cradle of students' growth, and family is the backing to maintain growth. Parents' education is the link between them, and parents' classroom is a platform to provide parents with correct information. ?
I hope that "Parents' Classroom" can enable parents and teachers to communicate in many ways, and parents can set an example for their children and guide them correctly. Let all the children in the world grow up healthily and happily in the journey of life.
Parents' classroom experience III
The first time I watched Parents' Classroom was when I was on duty at work. In fact, the child took the book home long ago and told me sincerely, mom, you must study hard. However, I am always busy with work and housework, and I have not settled down to read carefully. Being on duty in the unit can make people quietly put down some troubles on weekdays and calm down to read this book. Who knows this, let the hard time pass by like running water unconsciously, and I was completely attracted by this book.
There are scientific guidance and suggestions to educate everyone, as well as vivid examples of teachers and parents in the process of children's education. While reading, I can't help thinking about whether there are shortcomings and problems in education, whether it coincides with experts' ideas, whether our usual education for children is suitable for children's own characteristics, and what kind of influence it will have on them.
I like the two chapters "Parents' Taboo" and "Children's Voice" best. Although the space is not large, as the book says, "Take care of students' young hearts like dew on the lotus leaf." Parents should protect their children's hearts from their words and deeds. " Perhaps it is an idiom of his own that casts a lingering shadow on the child's mind. As the book says, "the premise of educating children is to understand children, and to understand children, we must walk into their hearts." How to walk into a child's heart? That is to learn to listen to children's voices. Too often, we pretend to be parents and severely criticize children, forgetting that children have their own dignity no matter how young they are; Too often, we ask our children to do this and that according to the standards of adults, but forget that children are children and their minds have not yet reached the standards of adults. Therefore, parents should start from their own words and deeds, communicate with their children equally, understand and trust their children, and believe that every child sincerely wants to be a good child.
These are some of my experiences from reading the First Parent Classroom. Actually, I think much more than that. I think I will wait for every new parent class that my children bring back from school in the future. I think I will make friends with this book and learn more useful educational methods from it, so that our children can grow up healthily and happily.