1, understand the misunderstandings of your own education methods, such as: you are too excited, you don't know the cause of the problem, you don't know what your children think, and so on. Family education needs to be changed according to the children's situation. Parents should not be too strict or too gentle with their children, so that they can feel safe and correct their correct thoughts and psychology.

2. When something happens and the mood is in a stable state, ask about the child's situation and the flow of things. Parents often drive their emotions to various things. In the face of children's various problems, what parents should do is not to blame, but to analyze and communicate all aspects of children's problems according to the real situation.

3. Let children learn to grow up independently. In the face of any decision, children need to participate. Parents can only give opinions, and the decision is in the hands of children. Children with independent thoughts will make various decisions through their own ideas during their growth. What parents need to do is to let them decide their own future growth direction.