Look at the times: don't be stubborn
Babysitting: Don't be reckless.
Look at yourself: don't be crazy.
See the future: don't worry.
Now look: don't run away.
Read Emotion: Don't refuse.
Reading motivation: don't suppress it.
Read to yourself: don't fight.
Understand interpersonal relationships: don't destroy them.
Reading signs: Don't delay.
Security company: don't threaten
Happy Company: Don't find fault.
Difficult company: don't throw the pot.
Learn to accompany: don't help.
Chat company: Don't disconnect.
The following text is the feeling of listening to the class.
Suhomlinski, a famous educator, said: "The personality, ideological belief and spiritual wealth of educators are a kind of power that can inspire every educated person to express themselves, reflect on themselves and control themselves."
Parents are children's first teachers, and the quality of family education affects children's life. Children are like parents' mirrors, and everything they say and do will leave their parents' brand. Therefore, scientific parenting is a compulsory course for every parent.
I am very grateful to Professor He Lingfeng, a famous psychologist, for teaching parents in Wuhan to "look after" children, ""understand "children and" accompany "children. Grow up with children in a wise way.
As the saying goes: "inherit the wind!" Parents are eager for their children to succeed, and if their children's grades are slightly unsatisfactory, they will be furious and anxious to tutor their children, which will inevitably increase their pressure.
In fact, although children are small, every life is an independent individual. The wheel of life is rolling forward and the development of the times is changing with each passing day. The concept of educating children should also keep pace with the times.
Recently, the national level requires citizens to have three qualities: ideological morality, scientific culture and physical and mental health. Therefore, parents have the responsibility to guide their children to find a happy road that belongs to their future life.
In this era of rapid development, the investigation of children is not a brush topic, but how to survive. The enrollment of some famous schools in the United States has three indicators, namely, taking care of yourself, taking care of others and self-growth.
As parents, we should understand the nature and needs of children and establish a harmonious parent-child relationship.
1 unconditional love
Take good care of the children. Care about his sleep, take good care of his daily diet, help him develop the good habit of self-discipline and finish his homework independently.
Young life is easy to accept new things. Discover the child's strengths and encourage him to give full play to his strengths. Children may have better judgment and adaptability than their parents.
Don't stick to the rules and demand your children with your old ideas. Treat children as adults and treat their progress with growing thinking. After all, children live in a much better age than their parents were born.
Let go at the right time.
Everyone has emotions, and some children's thoughts are expressed through emotions. Emotion itself is not right or wrong, and it is normal to release it. Teach them to guide themselves. For example, divert your attention and do other things.
Children in high school gradually enhance their self-awareness. Parents should start to "decentralize" and guide their children to establish their own knowledge system. Teach children to distinguish right from wrong and form their own social circle.
Abandon the so-called obsession of "being good for children" and don't bind children with your own expectations. Every child longs for respect and freedom.
3 grow together
The times are progressing, children are growing, and parents can also grow by reading or listening to courses. For example, in this psychology class, Professor He Lingfeng's easy-to-understand explanation helped parents solve many educational puzzles.
What should I do if I encounter problems? Solve the problem. Parents should take responsibility and be good guides for their children's lives. Try to narrow the gap with children, have a pleasant chat regularly and understand the development trend of children.
Parents and children can be blood relatives, teachers and students, or friends. Children are willing to communicate with their parents, so that parents can care for their children in time and accompany them along the way.
As we all know, there is no end to learning in school, and so is family education. Scientific educational methods can affect a person, a family and even generations.
Children are really a mirror of their parents. Inherited the advantages of parents, but also projected some shortcomings. On the road of education, parents and children should be open-minded and eager to learn, and make progress together.
Every child is an angel, fly with him with love!