1 Select the time and place
Ensure a private and quiet environment and avoid embarrassing scenes.
2 keep calm
Emotional stability is the key, don't be outspoken because you are angry.
3 Use "I" statement
Avoid accusations and make it easier for children to accept them.
4 specific and clear
Explain mistakes and avoid vague expressions.
5 provide solutions
Guide children to find ways to correct them.
6 encourage reflection
Inspire children to think deeply about behavior and consequences.
7 Express love and support
Let children know that criticism is out of concern and expectation.
8 Listen to feedback
Respect children's feelings and promote mutual understanding.
9 be consistent
The rules are consistent, so that children can clearly define the boundaries.
lead by example
The power of example is infinite, and it becomes the object of children's learning.