What should parents do to teach excellent and elegant children? Good character and habits really need to be cultivated from an early age. Parents are the best role models for children. Many parents want their children to have excellent character, but many places choose the wrong teacher for their children. Take the simplest mobile phone as an example: everyone wants children to watch less mobile phones and study more, but as parents, they play mobile phones in front of their children and never read books. What are children good at? Its imitation is the fastest and most effective way for them to know the world. And parents are the fastest imitators of children. Tell me about my personal experience: since my daughter-in-law got pregnant, there was almost no TV at home for the next two years, and the screen of my mobile phone was wrinkled by moisture. It was not until the little guy was over two years old that he watched TV with him. We agreed on the time to watch TV, and we stayed with him all the time. Now he is three years old, watching TV. He rarely indulges in it, and occasionally procrastinates, but not for long.

The same is true of other electronic products, which are jointly agreed and abided by. Shanghai implements garbage sorting. Every time domestic garbage is produced, the little guy will tell us what garbage it is and which trash can it is put in (there are three at home). He has many advantages over ordinary children of the same age, such as good memory, excellent language ability, no preference for snacks, no addiction to games, great mathematical logic and so on. We have been trying to be his role model with limited cognition since childhood. Does the little guy have no bad habits? There are also! When I was more than two years old, I was put in my hometown for two or three months for special reasons. As a result, he learned a lot of rude words when he came back, because the adults in the village would tease him and say a lot of inappropriate words to him, and he also learned. Later, when I brought it back, I made great efforts to adjust it, and it has not been completely eradicated until now. Therefore, if children want to have excellent personalities, they should first have these personalities as parents, and then set an example and continue to patiently teach their children to meet your requirements.