First of all, making money is undoubtedly one of the basic needs of modern life. Earning income through work can provide a warm home, delicious food and comfortable living conditions for families.
Making money can not only meet material needs, but also provide children with better educational resources and development opportunities. For many parents, work is also a way to realize self-worth and sense of accomplishment, which is why they are willing to spend time and energy.
However, the importance of accompanying children cannot be ignored. Especially in the critical stage of children's growth, the companionship of parents is an important factor in shaping children's character and values. There is no doubt that children need the care and companionship of their parents to meet their emotional and psychological needs.
Only by establishing a close relationship with children can we better understand their needs, help them solve problems and cultivate their self-confidence and independence. In companionship, parents can better understand their children's interests and potentials and give them correct guidance and support.
Influence of absence of parent-child companionship on growth
1, no one is with you when you need it most.
When children are afraid of the dark at night, they will think, if only they had their own parents to accompany them; When they see the thunder and lightning, they will think how nice it would be if someone held them.
When they see other people's children go to the playground with their parents, they will feel that it would be nice if they had this opportunity. Once children have this sense of loss for a long time, they will feel insecure and grow up easily.
2. The bullied children can't help them solve their problems in time.
Without parents, children may be bullied by other children at school, such as giving them nicknames or even bullying them in words or behaviors. At this time, the child really wants help, but only his grandparents may come home. He doesn't know at all and doesn't know how to solve it.
And parents are far away, even if they say it, they can only comfort him and can't bring him any substantial improvement. Children may choose to keep these negative emotions in their hearts. If his classmates at school increase their efforts to him, one day, he will be fed up.
Even if you finally get through this stage, the injury caused by this experience will always accompany the child's growth, which may have a certain impact on his psychology and personality.