2, too strict. Nowadays, parents are very strict with their children. They all hope that their children can look at people and make some contributions to the people and society. But some parents are very happy and strict with their children, and they lose their temper if they can't do it. But also force their children to do something strictly. And never inspire children.
This method has a great influence on children, which will not only put great pressure on their spiritual world, but also severely hit their self-confidence ideologically and make them feel inferior more and more. As a result, children have no confidence in what they do, and eventually they are worried about communicating with others and slowly develop into autism. It will also affect the relationship between father and son, and there will be competition at home. Finally, it is the end of the road.
3. Excessive neglect We shouldn't be too careless about our children. Because children's hearts are fragile, they want to be recognized and cared for by their parents. Only in this way can their psychological state gain a sense of belonging. And this kind of damage is invisible. They often see it, which may be some small key points. Therefore, our parents must always observe and care for their children and give them some incentives and rewards.
At this time, parents can't be cold and violent to their children, which will not only increase children's hatred for their parents, but also promote the deterioration of family relations. We must always pay attention to our children and lend them a helping hand when they need us. In a real sense, give children an attitude of releasing pressure from the heart.
What kind of problems should be prevented on the way to teaching children? 1. Think from the child's point of view. In fact, there are many main reasons why every child cries. It may be big or big, but the child is certainly not unreasonable. First of all, treat children as normal people. We can't squeeze them because they have to listen to their families when they are young. However, we should learn to put ourselves in the child's shoes and always think from the child's point of view to see how the child felt at that time.
Only by finding the root causes can we really solve the difficulties. Parents must always pay attention to their children's behavior in daily situations and see why they are disobedient. Only by finding the crux can they really get their children out of trouble from the source. You can't communicate with children in a bad tone, and you don't have to lose your temper. Communicate calmly with your child and slowly guide him to influence his disobedient personal behavior. And choose the most suitable education method to make them better and better.