How to educate 8- 10 children
It is necessary to cultivate children's interest in learning and study with them first. When children do their homework, especially when parents are asked to dictate new words, judge math problems or check their recitation, parents should put down their work and complete their home study tasks with their children. Facts have proved that it is an effective means for schools to mobilize parents to participate by leaving homework. Second, it is his duty to let children learn clearly. Nowadays, many primary schools are promoting the experience of "happy education", which is a means to improve children's interest in learning in order to make them study happily. However, when children study for a period of time, especially after entering the senior grade, many children will have the view that "the content of learning is useless". Why? The effectiveness of any means to improve learning interest is short-lived, and the long-term effect is to let children establish the concept of learning as their own responsibility. Parents should help their children to establish this concept and tell them that their academic performance is linked to their future and career. Parents can also tell their children about their experiences and how what they have learned in class plays a role in their lives. In this way, children's desire to learn will be enhanced and lasting. Third, guide children to know how to use knowledge. How to express the use of knowledge to children? For example, when learning English, you can surf the Internet after learning English, or send emails to children in Australia or Britain to chat with them. This sentence is simple and clear. For the knowledge of other subjects, parents can also use life examples to guide their children and stimulate their interest in learning all kinds of knowledge. As a teacher, we should learn to explain the charm of subject knowledge according to the principle of "analogy" and attract children to the ocean of knowledge. Fourth, home and school work together to cultivate the flowers of the motherland. Education experts believe that it is important to keep in touch with the school, so that parents can know their children's performance in school. Parents care about their children, and school administrators should take advantage of this need to carry out some activities, such as parent-teacher meetings, accompanying parents to classrooms, and teachers' home visits. The result of this is an exchange of views and a consensus. The goal of the school is to improve the quality of education, and to achieve this goal requires the joint efforts of home and school. Fifth, check your child's schoolbag regularly. I once weighed my child's schoolbag, weighing 7.5 kg. Open your schoolbag and find books, paper, school tools, waste paper, etc. Pile them up at will, let the child find an item, and he will toss for a while. Therefore, I consciously check my children's schoolbags and suggest that children classify things and prepare learning tools according to the class schedule. In this way, children slowly learned to pack their schoolbags, and thus made great progress in self-care. Sixth, arrange time and space. A survey of American children shows that when all the class hours are added up, a person only attends classes for 5 1 day a year. Assuming that these 5 1 day are in class day and night, where do you go for the rest of the time? Children in our country may be better, but it is also a waste of time everywhere. Therefore, parents should help their children arrange time and space. Children should have a schedule, and the usual schedule should be different from Saturday and Sunday. At home, children should have a comfortable place to study. Seventh, make a study plan. Parents should take action to care about their children's study, and making a study plan is one of the actions. Parents should help their children determine their priorities and goals. In addition to making study plans, parents can also suggest that children invite classmates to do homework at home, which can help each other. Some children don't listen to their parents, but are willing to listen to their classmates' parents. Eighth, punish children moderately. Rewards and punishments are the means to establish a code of conduct. On the question of whether to punish children, parents can impose a less excessive punishment. However, punishment should not be parents' emotional behavior. Punishment is meaningful only when the child has a wrong behavior or must be responsible for his own behavior. After he hurts other children, he will compensate the injured children; If he deliberately destroys something, he will deduct the loss from his pocket money or punish him for working; If a child steals something, he must take it out and admit his mistake. Parents should not punish their children too much. What parents need to pay more attention to is that excessive punishment without patience education will lead to children's resistance and revenge.