Only when children's learning ability is improved can children have enough discrimination to distinguish what is right and what is impossible. For example, try not to let children watch TV for a long time, because children will learn the plot inside, but they don't know that some of the plots inside are unrealistic, so they should not watch too much TV, but take them to read more books.

2. Cultivate children's sense of crisis

As long as children have a sense of crisis, they can do less irrational things. For example, the children mentioned above will stand very high in order to fly like the characters in cartoons. If children have a sense of crisis, they dare not stand so high. Usually tell children the consequences of doing dangerous things and cultivate their awareness of danger.

Always put yourself in the other's shoes when you encounter something.

When a child encounters difficulties that cannot be solved, he should be guided to solve the problem in another way. For example, when a child accidentally stains the paper while drawing, he will lose his temper and say no to drawing. At this time, parents can remind their children to add more strokes to make other pictures. This can effectively cultivate children's ability to improvise.

4. Leave time for children to think.

When children encounter difficulties, don't rush to tell them how to solve them, but help them solve their problems through guidance. Doing so can not only cultivate children's thinking ability, but also effectively prevent children from doing irrational things.

Only by improving children's "rational thinking" can we better hone their temper. Only when children have a good temper can family quarrels be reduced. Only when there are fewer quarrels can we provide a warmer living environment for children.