1, do what you can, step by step. According to the actual development level of children's body and mind, follow the order of gradual improvement from easy to difficult. Only by fully understanding the actual level of children's physical and mental development and following the laws of children's physical and mental development can we consider what to teach and how to teach.
2. Cultivate correct ideas. Many incorrect ideas are actually instilled in children by parents. The child's brain is empty, like a blank sheet of paper. We can see that many people are stubborn about their misconceptions, because these deviations have been deeply rooted in their hearts since childhood. No matter how the teacher teaches and how others persuade, it is useless.
3. Treat children's requirements correctly. Everyone has needs, which are manifold and often endless.
4. Grasp the law step by step. There are thousands of methods of family education, but there is no definite method.
5. Abide by democratic principles. Parents should strive to create a democratic and harmonious family atmosphere and pay full attention to their opinions and suggestions. Put yourself in the child's shoes.
6. Integrate theory with practice. Family education guidance is a practice under the guidance of family education guidance theory, and the practice of family education guidance should provide practical services for the theoretical research of family education guidance. If the practice of guiding family education is to be effective and level, it must be guided by theory. We should attach importance to family education and guide practical problems, especially from practical research.
The role of guiding principles of family education;
1. Ensure the scientificity of education: the guiding principle of family education follows the law of children's physical and mental development, ensures the scientificity of education, and makes the content, methods and progress of education conform to the level of children's physical and mental development.
2. Shaping correct values: The guiding principles of family education will help children to establish a positive and healthy world outlook, outlook on life and values by cultivating correct concepts, which will have a far-reaching impact on their lives.
3. Cultivate children's autonomy: The guiding principles of family education encourage children to express their needs and opinions and respect their individuality and differences, which helps to cultivate children's autonomy and creativity and enable them to better cope with future challenges.
4. Promote family harmony: The guiding principle of family education advocates a democratic and harmonious family atmosphere and emphasizes equality and respect between parents and children, which helps to promote family harmony and provide a good environment for children's healthy growth.
5. Improve the effectiveness of education: The Guiding Principles of Family Education pays attention to integrating theory with practice, pays attention to the practical problems existing in family education, and puts forward targeted solutions to improve the effectiveness of family education so that children can really benefit from it.