There will be some differences between the two generations in the concept of parenting. For example, in terms of diet, young parents tend to feed scientifically and eat a balanced diet to ensure that their children can get the nutrition they need every day, and don't eat too much to avoid getting fat. However, grandparents may think that children eat more, it is a blessing to eat, and it is distressing to be fat in vain!
Recently, there was a comparison between grandma and mom on the Internet. From the first photo, we can see that Mengwa is like a little princess under the care of her young mother, and her dress, hairstyle and temperament are full of foreign flavor. And since I went to the village and asked my grandmother to help me take care of it for a while, although I still wore the same style of clothes, Mengwa felt completely different, from western-style Lucy to Cui Hua in the village, and her temperament was completely changed.
Because mothers usually pay more attention to their children's appearance, especially girls, and will help their daughters comb a delicate hairstyle and dress up carefully, but grandma is obviously not so meticulous and informal, and even waits until the clothes worn by the children are dirty, so as not to be as dirty as her mother. Moreover, more importantly, the child has obviously gained a lot of weight at grandma's house.
The same is true of the other photo. Grandmothers obviously don't pay so much attention to their children's clothes, but pay attention to practicality, as long as they can keep warm. From the photos, we can also see that although it is also winter, mothers should pay attention to their children's clothes and keep warm, and also have some matching requirements. This pink coat and a scarf are very cute. However, when the painting style changed, the baby came to grandma's place. Although it is also wrapped in a scarf, it is also warm enough, but the yellow scarf with this red spotted cotton-padded jacket is a proper peasant style.
Netizens also laughed at this set of comparison pictures, and many netizens also said that their babies have experienced this kind of treatment. As long as you stay at your grandmother's house for a long time, you will become very grounded and make people laugh and cry.
However, this is actually more of a ridicule of netizens. Think in another direction. In fact, it is good to let the children be grounded. At least the child will not be too delicate and will be more independent.
Moreover, what many young parents may not know is that there are many benefits for the elderly to take care of their children.
1, more life experience.
Grandparents, grandparents, after all, are experienced people, have rich experience in caring for children, and know the different development characteristics of children at all stages like the palm of their hand.
Moreover, rich life experience can also enable them to handle things calmly, such as children getting sick or encountering some unexpected situations, and they can also handle them calmly.
2. Be able to spend more time with your children.
Young parents are generally under great pressure and have no time and energy to take care of their children all day. Even if they occasionally have holidays or leisure time, most of them have to accompany their children with their mobile phones, and they are not focused enough when interacting with their children.
But old people are different. Most of them have reached retirement age or have retired, and they will have relatively abundant time. Out of love for their children, they are more willing to spend time and energy on their children, so that they can concentrate more and better understand and meet their needs.
3. Be more patient with children.
Compared with young parents who have to face the pressure of life and work, they are a little anxious and impatient. The elderly have reached the retirement age, no longer need to face the fierce social environment, and their mentality is more peaceful. In the process of getting along with children, I will be more patient and get along well with children.
4, can be more tolerant of raising children.
Although it may be hard for the elderly to take care of their children, they have rich experience in life and parenting. In the process of taking care of their children, they are willing to let them try many things without too many dogmas. They will be more tolerant in raising children, so the children they cultivate are more independent, more practical and more exploratory.