Professor Wang Caigui: This problem arises because there are too few places where you can read a lot of classics. If possible, try not to cut off family ties. If you have regrets, you can't blame reading the Bible. You can only blame that children are not allowed to read the Bible conveniently in this era. He has to read the Bible. This is destiny. If children leave their parents and live in school between the ages of three and six, we can properly consider the time of parent-child coexistence and make more frequent trips, such as once a week.
According to the experience of the school, parents have not found that family relations are weakened because parents and children do not live together. Affection is maintained because of kindness, and it is not necessary to have affection with relatives. We are very happy to find that parents have come to pick up the children. The longer they stay in private schools, the closer their family ties will be and the more relieved their parents will be. If the child ignores him and revolts with his family, how dare he send him away? Let's look at the college students and people now. They all grew up with their parents. Are they filial to their parents? Many parents can't teach their children, and many children are badly taught at home. On the contrary, he went to school and was inspired by the books of sages and the love of teachers and classmates. There are many children at home who have betrayed their parents and teachers and can't teach. They will be sent to school in two or three months, and their parents will be very happy and grateful. So why can the school go on? Don't worry too much about school, and don't feel smarter than those parents, because those parents are not stupid than you.
Moreover, a large proportion of the contents of Confucian classic professors emphasize family ties and human relations, stimulate children's heartfelt love and respect for their parents, and understand their feelings. Confucianism is mainly concerned with family relations.
It's not that living together will produce feelings. But to understand affection, affection can be more sincere and profound. Living together every day, there are not a few children who are indifferent and rebellious to their parents after the age of fifteen or sixteen. So whether the family relationship is true or not is not necessarily related to cohabitation. But it is directly related to people's Confucian cultural level and Confucian cultural accomplishment.