Finalized: Xiao Mu

This is what impressed me the most in the whole speech. As a mother, it is not a taste to tell the truth after reading this speech, because now more and more people advocate happy education and think that children are under too much pressure.

If something goes wrong with the child, the education of parents will be attacked. I admit that everyone's education is flawed, but I will never admit that everything is right for children and wrong for parents.

Professor Qian Wenzhong, who gave a speech at the Third New Oriental Family Education Summit Forum, made a speech that resonated from the heart, and because of this speech, many families who were in a dilemma in family education actually became transparent.

It is actually appropriate to compare China's education to a person who has cancer, because he said that if a person has cancer but fails to treat it in time, or connives at its onset, it will be treated if it is serious.

Is this still useful? It's no use. This is the present situation of education in China.

In addition, China education, which is confused by foreign education, has begun to advocate happy education, so why should education be happy? It is certain that education is painful.

It's like breaking a cocoon into a butterfly. If you want to grow into a better self, you must have a painful price or experience. This is normal, and what is more exaggerated is the document issued by the Ministry of Education some time ago.

The content of the document is roughly: "Give teachers the right to criticize students", which makes me even more puzzled. When did this right disappear? Still need to be empowered? It's natural for teachers to criticize students when they make mistakes?

Is it a good teacher to watch children make mistakes and indulge blindly? This is a good education? The teacher can say whatever he wants, and the child will beat his parents. This must not be compromised.

1. Offend elders

There are actually many such situations now. You think it sounds like a big deal, but in fact, you won't feel anything when a real child offends the elders. I believe that many children become more and more hypocritical when they grow up.

Especially I don't like my grandparents, and I feel that they are very disappointing. I am always reluctant to give up, and I don't want my grandparents to pick me up for school every day.

I even often complain to my parents that the old people are too shameful. At this time, many parents will sternly say: "You can't talk nonsense, you can't talk about grandparents like this", which is actually anodyne to children.

They didn't realize the seriousness of this matter. In fact, this is a question of education.

At this time, if parents don't beat their children, they are conniving at their children's lack of education In the future, he will only intensify and will not change anything. This is the most important time to crack down on them, and the most basic education issue cannot be compromised.

beat people

This kind of behavior actually happens when children are very young. Studies have shown that the peak of children's love to hit people is around 1 year old, when the baby just begins to have physical movements.

Moreover, the temper has gradually developed, and many treasure mothers have been beaten because the baby at this stage really hits people, bites people and scratches their hair.

At this time, many parents always think that children are a sign of growth, but don't think this is a very serious matter. At most, they severely reprimanded him several times. Even if they hit someone, they will think, "He is just a child. Ignore him. "

But this kind of education will make children think that their actions are not wrong, so they will only get worse when they grow up, so don't ignore the problem of hitting people.

Don't even think that he is just a child. You should hit him and her the first time he hit someone, so that he can feel that this behavior is wrong and make him correct it.

3. When Xiong Haizi was acting.

Many incidents of Xiong Haizi have also emerged in an endless stream before. I believe everyone has heard of it. For example, a baby spit in someone else's bowl before, and then he didn't apologize. Some children hit someone with a shopping cart.

These are all acts of Xiong Haizi, which should not happen. In the above scene, when others scold their children, these parents don't apologize and think they are melodramatic.

This is a failure of education. Xiong Haizi's behavior is that parents should hit their children before others scold them, because only hitting them will make them really scared and really hurt.

How many parents severely reprimanded their children, and the children even talked back, but they still had to be beaten. We don't advocate doing this all the time, but we can't give in to some educational principles.

Xiaoling called her uncle: "There are so many Xiong Haizi in the society now, which are the result of connivance of parents, schools and society! Now parents indulge their own Xiong Haizi on the one hand, and can't tolerate others' Xiong Haizi on the other, so there are so many children fighting with their parents! "

Quiet corner: "Praise and punishment for children are his means of distinguishing right from wrong, and both are indispensable." Xiong Haizi was educated by his parents. Xiong Haizi made a mistake and was punished. Bear's parents should be punished and educated. "

Netizen 25568842 1: "This is the real professor! I still remember the scene when my father hit me when I was a child. That's great! It's a pity that I won't have another chance to let my father hit me. Thanks to my father for letting me understand a lot! Being beaten is sometimes a sober education! Have no choice! But it is not absolute. "