My wife and I have been teachers all our lives, knowing that children are the shadow and mirror of parents, so we attach great importance to setting an example and strive to be the first teacher of children. I remember one year, I got dysentery and was admitted to the staff hospital opposite the school. Although people live in the hospital, thinking that they can't miss classes, they prepare lessons in their beds and go to school to give lectures during class hours. After class, I was exhausted, and then I went back to the hospital for treatment until I recovered and was discharged from the hospital. I didn't miss a class. Children see in their eyes and remember in their hearts. 198 1 year, my father was critically ill and a telegram came from home, but at this time the students were in a tense pre-selection stage of college entrance examination review. In order not to affect my work, I drove out the pre-selected topic overnight. The second telegram came and my father died. I hurried back to my hometown in Tianjin to take care of my father's affairs, and then rushed back to Taiyuan to fight back my sadness and devote myself to intense teaching. At that time, the accommodation was poor, and I often took my children to the office for evening study. I prepare lessons and correct homework, and they do homework preview and review. Day after day, year after year, they are all in contact, and their study is progressing. Under the subtle influence of our parents, children have developed the good habit of studying hard, caring for the collective and being conscientious and responsible in their work. The three children were successively rated as "three excellent students in the province", "outstanding league members in Taiyuan" and "safflower teenagers in Taiyuan".
The key to family education is to establish a good family style. "Success comes from thrift, failure comes from luxury" and "frugality fosters morality". Children form a good habit of thrift from an early age. They love working, beating adobe, beating coal cakes, digging vegetable pits and doing housework. My daughter's first sweater was made of wool with her pocket money. 1983, she was admitted to Beijing Normal University. She walked into the university in a plaid dress sewn by her mother. The youngest son often wears "big and small" clothes. But children can be reimbursed for books. 198 1 The eldest son was admitted to the Biology Department of taiyuan normal University. I bought him a book, "Ci Hai Biology Volume", which he couldn't put down and has kept ever since. 1973, the school recommended me to teach full-time in Taiyuan and return to school as the first Chinese teaching job in our senior three classes. 1978, participated in the amateur study of Chinese language and literature class of Taiyuan Institute of Education. Rain or shine for 6 years, never missed a class. Every course is above 90 points, ranking first in the class. 1982 was awarded the only outstanding student by Taiyuan Education Bureau. After I graduated from 1984, I took part in the correspondence study of Beijing Normal University. My wife also earned a diploma in higher education self-study examination at the age of 50 through hard self-study, which laid a solid foundation for writing and publishing poems after retirement. At the age of 40, the eldest son, who is a doctor at the National People's Congress, said with emotion: "Parents' eagerness to learn has set a benchmark for us to move forward and is a silent command for us. "My family started to hold the Spring Festival Gala in 2003, and has been insisting until now. As the youngest son said: "Every family reunion has increased the positive energy to move forward and inspired us to make persistent efforts to realize our dreams. "
Education is more important than edification, and good conduct comes from good family style. Our family has cultivated children's spirit of self-improvement, courage to forge ahead, lofty aspirations and hard work, so that they can move forward smoothly on the road to adulthood.