What's the difference between having one child and having two children? In fact, there must be a difference between having one child and having two children.
1. One child is raised according to the book and the second child is raised according to the pig?
When a baby is born, everything will be more careful and everything will be scripted. This is really a very scientific way to raise children, and I am more precious to my baby. I can't bear to beat and scold, but I love like a sweetheart.
Having a second child is not that expensive. I gave my heart to my first child. Although the second child is my own, I always feel less excited and more casual about feeding the child. Please make way for scientific parenting, as long as the baby is not hungry.
2. Different economic pressures?
It really costs a lot of money to have a baby now. Babies are like golden beasts, burning money. All kinds of milk powder, all kinds of diapers, all kinds of interest classes, remedial classes, cram schools and all kinds of information are all from Qian Qian.
Relatively speaking, the economic pressure of having only one baby is really not that great. Even if the baby spends a lot, it will at least take up the resources of the whole family. If you have two children, your expenses will double, your income will be reduced, your stress will be great, and your quality of life will suddenly decline. How can you not regret having a second child?
My cousin and his wife are both middle school teachers, and their income is not particularly high, but it is more than enough to raise a child. Every year, I can also have some small money to play in neighboring provinces, and I will also visit the province during short holidays. Life is very moist. No, now that I have a second child, the old man is too old to take care of the children, so I have to take turns with my wife. Fortunately, there is a dormitory in the school, so I hired a nanny near the school to help with the children during the day and take care of them at night.
Since I gave birth to my second child, I have increased a lot of expenses such as milk, diapers and babysitting. I used to see that my income was not bad, but now I have no money and no time to play around, and my quality of life suddenly drops. It costs a lot of money to get married when children grow up.
I believe many people feel this way, so one and two are really different. ?
3. Damage to women's bodies?
In fact, women can reduce ovarian diseases by having children. Is it suitable? Having children is good for your health. But now many people are already in their advanced years when they have a second child.
Giving birth to a child in this situation will not recover well after delivery, which will do great harm to the body. Moreover, the baby will not grow up after birth, and needs someone to take care of it every day, such as changing diapers and feeding at night? Work? After a few days, my dark circles came out. I just gained a few pounds and my meat fell off. I always feel very tired. I can only say one thing, it's all caused by having a second child.
In any case, there must be a difference between having one child and having two children, but no matter how many children there are, for a mother, she will only love her own children.