Let's take a look at the achievements of these six children:
Cai, the eldest son, graduated from Cornell University with a doctorate and later became a tenured professor at the University of Pennsylvania.
The second son Cai Tianwu, 19 years old, was admitted to CASPEA's doctoral program in the United States sponsored by Li Zhengdao, and later became the vice president of Goldman Sachs.
The third son, Cai Tiansi, is a doctoral student at St. John's University in the United States;
The fourth son, Cai Tianrun, is a doctoral student at Arkansas State University.
The fifth son Cai Tianjun, master of China University of Science and Technology;
The youngest daughter, Cai Tianxi, 18 years old became a doctoral student at MIT and the youngest associate professor at Harvard University at the age of 28.
Looking at this resume, I think many parents want to know how this family raised six excellent children. Moreover, this father's educational methods are also worth learning by many of us. Cai Xiaoxiao summed up his method of educating children as? Three keywords? And then what? Four main points? .
The three key words are: early education, determination from childhood and self-study. For example, when the child is very young, Cai Xiaoxiao will point his finger at the child's chin and say the numbers several times; His family broadcasts English and Japanese channels every morning, and children gradually become interested in foreign languages; When I was a child, I posted portraits of Einstein and Madame Curie on the wall, which stimulated children's desire for learning and gave them a direction in their hearts.
Cai pays great attention to cultivating children's self-study ability, so that children can understand the key points in the textbook first and then explain them themselves.
The four main points are: teaching life first, happy education, love and communication. If children don't understand the truth of being a man, they can't achieve great things. Cai Xiaoxiao trained his children to be virtuous, kind, strong-willed and self-reliant, and set a positive example for them from an early age. Cai Xiaoxiao is not forcing children to learn, but entertaining and entertaining, and letting children experience the joy of learning through rewards and competitions.
Many parents are confused, unable to communicate well with their children, and the family atmosphere is not very harmonious, which is also the key point that we need to learn from Cai Xiaoxiao. In Cai Xiaoxiao's family, parents respect their children's personality and choices and give them encouragement and guidance in time. In the end, the children all became excellent talents.
Education does not happen overnight. It takes patience and love to cultivate children. The reason why we have many problems in educating our children is that as parents, we also have problems. Learn from Cai Xiaoxiao late, with more methods, more patience, more love and more communication, our children can all become talents!