1. Communication and listening: First, make sure that both sides can listen to each other's views and concerns. Only by trying to understand each other's positions can we find common ground.
2. Stay calm: avoid arguments or emotions during the discussion. Keeping calm helps to solve the problem more effectively.
3. Seek compromise: Try to find a mutually acceptable solution. This may require some concessions from both sides.
4. Respect each other: Although you may have differences on some issues, you all work for the best interests of your children. Respect each other's point of view, even if you disagree.
5. Seek professional advice: If no agreement can be reached, consider seeking professional advice (such as an educational consultant, psychologist or family therapist). They may provide useful suggestions on how to deal with differences.
6. Phased implementation: If possible, try different viewpoints and practice for a period of time to see which method is more effective. This can avoid making immediate decisions, thus reducing stress and conflict.
7. Put children's interests first: Finally, always put children's best interests first. Even if you disagree on some issues, make sure that you work together to create a healthy, happy and supportive environment for your children.