1. Persuasion education, specific methods of persuasion education: Parents should put facts and reason according to their children's thoughts, so that children can understand a certain truth, speak pertinently, flexibly and have a pleasant attitude, instead of condescending and cynicism. When discussing, we should respect children, listen to their opinions patiently, have incorrect opinions, reason patiently, and let children distinguish right from wrong. Parents should have the courage to admit that their views are incorrect.
2, creative praise, when the child is doing well, don't just say that it is very good. Be specific, tell the details, and point out the places that are impressive or better than last time. For example, it is really polite for you to say good morning to the doorman's uncle today. However, we should also pay attention to praise and not develop children's false expectations. Parents should let their children discover the satisfaction and sense of accomplishment brought by completing a thing, instead of rewarding him with material rewards.
3. Pay attention. Nothing can make children feel cared for more than listening attentively. Don't listen with only one ear. When the child is talking to you, try to stop what you are doing and listen to him attentively. Listen to the child patiently. Don't interrupt, hurry to help him express himself or let him finish his words quickly, even if you have heard what he said many times. It is the best time to listen when you accompany your child to school or put him to bed.
4, believe in children, we must believe in children, give children enough time to adapt and learn, children's adaptability is different, don't always think that other people's children are good, let alone punish children's interest in learning, more encouragement, less patience.
5. Be honest and trustworthy. If a child wants to be an honest child, parents should be honest parents first. When you promise something to your child, we must do it. At the same time, children must grasp their promises to their parents. Then they will become honest and trustworthy people in the future.
6, the establishment of the three views, establish a correct three views for children from an early age, let him know what is right and wrong from an early age, what to do and what not to do. That's all that matters.