202 1 parents' experience in educating their children. A child is like a piece of rough jade. From the moment she was born, we should polish it carefully. I am not only responsible for my children, but also feel a sense of accomplishment from the bottom of my heart whenever I see their growth bit by bit. That kind of joy has nothing to do with how much sweat you pay. Below, I will talk about some tips for educating my daughter:
First, cultivate children's interest in learning.
Let children establish correct learning motivation and stimulate curiosity. Regularly educating children about the purpose of learning and guiding them to make clear the purpose of learning is to make learning a conscious and strong need and establish a correct learning motivation. At the same time, it is necessary to protect children's curiosity, encourage children to ask questions boldly, explain the importance of learning undergraduate courses well for some boring subjects, try to control children's interest in learning, and keep them full, active and stable.
Second, cultivate children's independence.
In daily life, the principle of "adults let go, children let go" allows children to do something within their power. At home, children can be allowed to clean the table, sweep the floor or wash the dishes, and then parents can give their children appropriate praise and encouragement, which not only gives them the opportunity to exercise, but also makes them lie to a great extent, which enhances their self-confidence and arouses their interest in labor. On the basis of cultivating children's love of labor, we should also appropriately cultivate children's ability to choose and deal with problems. Let them learn from their failures and grow up. As parents, we also set a good example for our children. Because our parents' every move and our quality are examples for children to imitate and learn, we should start from ourselves. Don't be uncertain about everything. Ask others for help if you understand.
Third, cultivate children to have good moral concepts.
How to train children to be a moral person? I think we should first start from the small things around us and be strict with ourselves. Then, everything we do, our moral level will be sublimated once. For example, on the bus, children give their seats to the elderly, but many adults are indifferent. At the same time, we should teach children to be grateful. An ungrateful child is like a fish that can't breathe. When children walk on the clean road, we tell them the hard work of cleaning workers, make children feel grateful to cleaning workers, and they give us a clean environment. When a child makes progress or wins honor in her studies, help her analyze who helped and supported her and let her know who she needs to thank. When children wear beautiful clothes and eat delicious food, we can educate them appropriately. The elders work hard and money is hard to come by. Moreover, we have to tell her that if there are no grandparents, there will be no him. It is they who have worked hard to bring up their parents, making him feel grateful to and respectful to their elders.
Fourth, cultivate a sense of collective honor.
In daily life. Often explain the little things in collective life to children, so that children can understand that living in a class group should unite their classmates and safeguard the honor of the group. Let her actively participate in various activities organized by the school, strive to get good grades and win glory for the class. As parents, we should also patiently listen to the children's sufferings and joys at school, analyze and discuss with them, and warn them to respect their teachers, who are her first leader in knowledge and her second parents in life.
5. Keep communication between parents and teachers.
During the children's schooling, parents should keep abreast of the children's school situation without delaying the teacher's class, and interpret the problems in time.
In short, children's performance today is inseparable from the education of their parents, as well as the training of school leaders and teachers. I will continue to cooperate with the school's work and hope to see this baby eagle fly higher and farther in the near future!
202 1 parents' experience in educating their children. Children are the treasure in every parent's heart, and we all expect them to grow sturdily. In the process of educating children, besides teachers, parents also play an important role. Family education is as important as school education. My daughter is six and a half years old and has just entered the first grade of primary school. In the process of educating children to grow up, my deepest experience is:
A warm family environment is the source of children's healthy growth.
Home is the main activity place for children, and the quality of family atmosphere directly affects children's physical and mental health. Parents must not always quarrel with their tongues in front of their children, which will make them feel fear, inferiority or even disgust, which will not only alienate the feelings between children and parents, but also lead to extreme behavior among peers. Giving children a safe, comfortable and warm home is the first step to teach them. Family members should love each other and live in harmony. In this regard, we use practical actions to let our daughter feel the warmth of the family.
Second, it is very important to cultivate children's good moral character step by step.
Our daughter started kindergarten at the age of 3 and entered the formal education system. We should lay a good foundation for her to take the first step in life and cultivate some good qualities in her life, so as to get rid of the common problem of "self-centered" contemporary only child.
You can tell her the story of "Kong Rong makes pears" and put it into practice, so that she can understand the truth of respecting the old and loving the young; Tell her that it is very happy to help others and let her know that she should help others; When playing with friends, give and take and so on. In my spare time, I often play games with my daughter. I said the last sentence: "My sister fell." The daughter added, "I'll help her up right away." We will never get tired of such games.
Third, cultivate children's hands-on and self-care potential.
The importance adults attach to children's education directly affects whether children will develop good behavior habits. Whether adults attach importance to it or not, and whether the educational methods are correct or not, the first is the concept. Some parents want their children to succeed. They are under increasing pressure in their studies and take more care of their lives, but they leave their children's good behavior habits behind and let themselves go. I think it is especially important for children to have a good habit of loving their work. Let children participate in the labor within their power, which can not only cultivate children's working habits and hard-working morality, but also cultivate children's independence, sense of responsibility, self-confidence, willpower and other good qualities and various potentials.
Therefore, when my daughter was very young, I began to ask her to do some housework as much as I could. Such as: packaging toys, dressing, washing handkerchiefs, washing socks, making beds, etc. Of course, children often can't do well, so we can't judge them by the standards of adults. As long as the child has made efforts, parents should fully affirm it. This is a challenge for them, and it requires children to make great efforts.
Fourth, let children be less stressed and more simple.
After studying, we should pay attention to let the children relax properly, take half an hour to walk and jog every night, use this time to understand the children's spiritual needs, and often have heart-to-heart talks with children, observe the children's physical and mental changes at any time, and be good at opening their hearts with small things in life.
Learn to look at your child with appreciation, and be good at catching the bright spot in her. Don't compare your own children with others' children, compare your children's present and past, look at their progress vertically, find and affirm any achievements they have made in time, let them feel our praise and encouragement, and improve their self-confidence and good study habits.
Children's hearts are sensitive. What kind of seeds are sown, what kind of flowers and fruits will be harvested. Therefore, I sincerely hope that my parents will sow the seeds of beauty, kindness and friendliness. Let beautiful, kind and friendly flowers bloom in children's hearts. Don't let the "ambitious" psychology become the pressure of children, let nature take its course and teach students in accordance with their aptitude, so that children can study easily. Believe that gold always shines!
202 1 parents' experience in educating their children. Fan Wensan's "Looking forward to a child's success and a woman's success" is the greatest wish of parents all over the world. But as parents, how should we educate our children? To this end, I consulted my children's teachers and other parents, and bought books and CDs in this field. After long-term study, exploration and summary, it is proved that these methods have played a great role in my children. Here, I will talk about some superficial views on educating children from four aspects and share them with parents, hoping to inspire everyone.
First, parents should set a good example for their children.
As we all know, family education is the enlightenment education for each of us and lays the foundation for our lifelong growth. Therefore, we should create a healthy, scientific and happy growth space for children. Mutual respect between husband and wife, care and respect between old people and young people, and harmony among family members will directly affect children's physical and mental development. We can't bring the troubles and unhappiness at work to our families and children. Don't promise things that children can't do at will. Cultivate children to be honest and trustworthy from an early age.
Children nowadays are smarter and more lively than before. Children are growing, and our parents should keep learning and growing, and learn new things and knowledge. Children have strong imitation ability. They are often influenced by their surroundings and imitate people or things around them. Therefore, the living environment of the family and the role of parents are all "silent education".
My daughter is seven years old and has just entered the second grade. Once, the husband asked his daughter, "Fanfan, what do you want to do when you grow up?" I was there, full of expectations for this mystery. I saw my daughter think for a moment, her eyes turned sharply, her speech speed was extremely fast, and she answered easily: "Stock trading at home." At that moment, I was shocked! I am a freelancer, with free and flexible time, and often look at stocks in front of the computer. She must think it is easy to sit in front of the computer and stock market, and then choose it as her ideal career in the future. From then on, I began to reflect on my daily words and deeds, and then made some additions, deletions and adjustments in this regard. Strive to achieve: in front of children, do not look at stocks, do not play games, do not chat online, and do not bring any adverse effects to children.
So I had more free time, and I began to try to make all kinds of snacks. Now, most China snacks are not a problem for me. Let me give you a compliment. The workmanship is not bad. I also learned to make birthday cakes recently. I have mastered one more skill myself. Children also like to watch the process of making snacks and sometimes help together. Plus her own creativity, we are both very happy and taste better. It can be seen that at ordinary times, what our parents do is watched by their children, which will also affect them. We should use a good environment and example to influence and edify children.
Second, cultivate children's living ability and behavior habits.
Children are naturally curious about the living environment and things around them, eager to participate in it and get the pleasure of experience and success. We might as well create such an opportunity for him appropriately. My children learned to eat by themselves when they were over one year old. When I was two years old, I would wear simple clothes and pants by myself. They performed better than ordinary children in the nursery and were praised by the $2 teacher. Although the child didn't finish these things well at first, I always gave her a chance to try and encourage her until she succeeded. My children and I have been sleeping in separate beds since childhood. When she was four years old, she said that she was a big child and offered to sleep in a room alone. I was not sure at that time, but I agreed to her request. In the first few nights, I always got up in the middle of the night to watch it several times, and occasionally I found her kicking off the quilt, but most of the time she wrapped herself tightly. Later, I usually don't get up to check her quilt. I have complete confidence that she can take care of herself. I'm relieved. This is also her proudest place. She often proudly tells her children that she sleeps alone in a room.
We can usually let our children wash some small things, such as their own rice bowls and handkerchiefs. When it is not clean, we can secretly wash it again later, but in front of the children, we must praise it. After a long time, children can do what they can do better. Appropriate encouragement and appreciation can strengthen good learning behavior and prevent the formation of bad behavior. As the saying goes, "one word of encouragement is better than a hundred words of scolding." Indeed, compared with criticism and accusation, "encouragement" has more unexpected effects on younger children. Usually, you should use a magnifying glass to discover your child's good habits and give encouragement and praise in time.
The formation of good behavior habits was not built in a day. It requires children's long-term efforts, constant supervision and guidance from parents, perseverance, bit by bit, dripping water wears away the stone, and accumulated over time until a good habit is formed.
Third, discuss with teachers and communicate with parents.
When children are studying, the role of teachers is quite great. Fortunately, my daughter's first teacher is a good teacher with rich teaching experience and strong sense of responsibility, which is very popular with her classmates. Usually, after school, I often communicate with the teacher to understand the children's performance at school, complain about their poor performance at home, and discuss with the teacher how to teach children to overcome bad habits so that their mistakes can be corrected in time. In this way, the teacher can understand my child more comprehensively, which is more conducive to her finding a more suitable educational method for my child from the perspective of her child's personality.
In view of several weaknesses in children's study, according to the teacher's suggestion, I made a "good boy progress tracking table", which listed three items: "fast", "very conscious" and "no mistakes" After daily evaluation, draw a red star with progress and a black star without progress. Red stars can be redeemed for rewards. When I have accumulated ten red stars, I will buy her a favorite extracurricular book. After a few weeks, the effect was remarkable, my daughter was very happy, and the teacher praised her for her remarkable progress.
Because of this, I often educate my children to respect their teachers and listen carefully. "One day as a teacher, one life as a father" is the greatness of teachers.
In addition, every once in a while, after seeing the children off in the morning, I will habitually chat with other parents who have seen their children off and talk about their study and life at home. I will tell my parents my new and effective experience and methods in promoting children's progress in recent days, and I will also get different educational methods from each other for future reference at an appropriate time.
Fourth, don't ignore the power of language in communication with children.
In the process of studying and living with children, we sometimes encounter such difficulties. I tried my best to persuade and guide, but it backfired from time to time. When I met similar things, I was distressed and thought: as parents, we should not always blame our children, but also reflect on ourselves and see where the problems lie. Maybe we can try another way, so that children will accept it more easily? In fact, as long as there is love and creativity, family education can also be interesting.
Once, I criticized my children too much, but I didn't realize it, so that my children were a little sad and resistant. She wrote a piece of paper and handed it to the table in front of me. As soon as I saw it, the paper said, "I regret saying that." Her behavior made me realize that my words were too radical, so I lowered my voice and said, "Can you tell me which sentence this is?" She replied with a small note: "the words on the mother's day card." I clearly remember that on Mother's Day, my daughter made me a card with many love patterns in various colors. The card says, "Mom, I love you!" " "It turned out that she regretted it ... Thought of here, my tears welled up. I opened the paper she wrote to me and wrote, "Sorry, it's mom's fault!" " "Besides, I specially wrote the word" horse "to the right of the word" mom "as" bird ",which my daughter wrote on the Mother's Day card, hehe. When my daughter saw it, she immediately covered her mouth and criticized me with a smile: "Mom, you wrote the word' mom' wrong. How did you become a mother? " Seeing that my daughter found the mistake of the word "mom", I smiled through tears, and the tense atmosphere suddenly became active. I said to her, "Miss Sun, would you please help me correct my mistake?" The daughter readily promised.
From this incident, I was inspired that in communication with children, sometimes it is more convenient and effective to use words than words. Because compared with language, language is shy and sometimes difficult to say, language is implicit and euphemistic, which makes use of the close communication between us and our children; Language is fleeting, and sometimes it doesn't necessarily leave much impression when spoken several times. It's easy to go in one ear and out the other. Writing overcomes this weakness. As long as it is not destroyed, we want to take it out and read it again when we want, and we can relive it every time we read it, which is naturally more impressive. Compared with the stormy reprimand, using words not only takes into account the child's self-esteem, but also is easy to be accepted by the child. It also allows her to truly touch the care and love of her parents, which is more conducive to parents entering the child's heart. So many times, family education can also add a lot of fun.
In a word, family education is a highly comprehensive art, a complicated process and a great cause. It requires parents to integrate all kinds of knowledge, better communicate with their children, arouse their enthusiasm, let their children get a good education in study, life, making friends, being a man and self-cultivation, and give full play to their potential. The so-called "those who get the law get twice the result with half the effort, and those who lose the law get twice the result with half the effort". Family education can make a person proud and brilliant. Generally speaking, it may create a nation's pride and even become a symbol of social civilization and progress.
However, every child's educational methods should also be different from person to person, and should be guided by the situation, and cannot be generalized. I hope all parents can spend more energy and brains on their children. At the very least, we should educate our next generation to be self-reliant, not burdened by society and useful to society.
202 1 Parents' Experience in Children's Education Recently, I gained a lot through the study of parents' school organized by the school, which made me realize that family education is the basis of implementing school education, and school education should interact with family education, and only family-school interaction can be more beneficial to education. The healthy growth of children, the rapid development of education and the diversification of educational models have brought great pressure to family education. Therefore, how to turn pressure into motivation requires our teachers and parents to constantly improve their understanding of the importance of family education and do a good job in family education with practical actions. Summarized some methods of educating children as follows:
First, establish children's outlook on life and values
I teach children to live up to life and learn what is true, what is false, what is right, what is wrong, what is beautiful, what is ugly, what is good and what is evil. To be a man, you must have a life plan and goals, and you can't muddle along until you are old. For this life plan and goal, you should study hard, because only through continuous learning and progress can you gain more knowledge to create a perfect future.
Second, educate children to do everything from bit by bit.
First of all, I want to set a good example for children and care about the details of their daily life, such as their life and study, physical and mental condition. If children encounter difficulties in their studies, I will try my best to help them solve them. Parents should also prepare some books and study materials at home, which can be studied by themselves or used as reference materials for their children. In short, if I have the potential to answer, I will answer. If I don't have the potential to answer, I will turn to information to answer for my children.
Third, parents should keep abreast of their children's performance at school.
For example, respect teachers, unite classmates, have good classes, have finished homework on time, have pressure, and so on. Every time a child comes home, parents should talk to their children about the school. If you find any new situation or problems, you can communicate with the school teachers in time to ensure that such problems can be educated in time and urge the children to correct them.
Fourth, do a good job in the usual study, and also help the children to make a stage summary.
Especially after each exam, help children analyze the causes of mistakes. If there are any problems, it means that they don't have enough knowledge. Through the examination and analysis after the exam, the correct ones should be consolidated and the insufficient ones should be made up. Generally exchange views with teachers and find problems. In addition, arrange similar reference materials for intensive training.
Fifth, give the child enough space to develop freely.
After finishing the necessary homework, let the child arrange the rest of the time by himself, instead of letting him learn this and that. Generally, children will do things they are interested in, such as doing crafts, drawing, riding a bike and watching children's programs, as long as they are conducive to their physical and mental health, they will not be disturbed. Learning is a long process. If the child is locked in the necessary range, the body and mind will not be rested and adjusted, which may be counterproductive and make the child have rebellious psychology, thus losing interest and confidence in learning.
6. When educating children, learn to observe their inner world with childlike innocence.
As parents, sometimes they can be strict parents and sometimes they can be mentors. We should have enough patience and confidence, treat children's actions calmly and calmly with calm and broad patience. Don't exult when they succeed, just show and encourage appropriately, and don't be discouraged when they fail. Just help children find and analyze the reasons, and don't yell if you don't agree, which will dampen their self-esteem and self-confidence.
There is no fixed model for educating children. It is very beneficial to improve the quality of family education to explore and learn for children.
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