In the variety show "Mom is Superman", we found the ways adopted by many star families in the process of raising their children.

It has always been recognized as "other people's children". Whether dealing with problems or caring for people and things, children show a more mature attitude.

Of course, such a situation is actually inseparable from the education of parents.

Many parents may be thinking about what kind of education methods should be adopted to make their children better. Bonzi education? Love education? Unconditional education? Encourage education?

Actually, it's not. We can find that in the program, Huo Siyan told us with his own personal experience that the education of children must follow: the education of love.

In the process of Huo Siyan getting along with her son, we can also find that she doesn't just love her children, but makes them feel her obvious concern.

In addition, in the process of getting along with children, children are willing to express their true thoughts to them, and sometimes even say "I love you".

It looks ordinary, but it is unmatched by many ordinary parents. Perhaps in the minds of these parents, they find it more difficult to say love.

And children are not willing to talk to their parents about their care. It's just that love has always been the most important factor connecting parents and children, and we should not ignore it.

We can also find that this two-way love has always existed in the program.

Uh-huh, caring about mom:

Love is a sense of responsibility: treat your mother as a little princess.

In the eternal thought, he thinks that his mother is a little princess and he is a man. He must take good care of his mother and not let her be wronged.

Imagine this child who has been responsible since childhood, what kind of state will he show when he grows up?

Treat mother as a little princess, he will lower his posture and know how to respect and love his mother at the same time. Such a child will never cause trouble to his mother and make his parents feel very satisfied.

Huo Siyan's love for children:

Love is a kind of respect: communicate with children on an equal footing and arrange children at will.

Of course, we talked about children's love for Huo Siyan. In fact, this situation cannot be separated from her own education.

Compared with some parents' repression and arrangement in the process of talking with their children, Huo Siyan actually respects children more when communicating with them.

Before watching the variety show, a treasure mother asked Huo Siyan, "Do you usually let your children watch TV?" Unexpectedly, Huo Siyan said, "Children like watching TV, why not let her watch it?

Only his eyesight will be checked every three months. If his eyesight declines, he will inevitably spend less time watching TV. This not only protects the child, but also satisfies his desire to watch TV. Why not?

So what we should see is that love is a kind of respect, not oppression. Huo Siyan's way of expressing his love for his children is to communicate with them equally.

In the process of getting along with children, parents want their children to become better and better, but we should also adopt a more correct way.

Nowadays, many parents arrange many things for their children, hoping that they can learn everything.

But in fact, children are not robots, nor can they output anything by inputting a program.

It is also necessary to recognize the characteristics of children and make use of the watering of love to make children more and more comfortable and make continuous progress.

What is the effect of "love" irrigation between parents and children?

According to relevant surveys, we will also find that families with love in their lives are very happy, optimistic and happy. Children will also show a better state in this process.

1) parent-child relationship is more harmonious.

Imagine, in a grumpy family and a loving environment, which child will get better and better?

We should be clear that the influence of family background on children is obvious, and parent-child relationship is the most influential one.

If parents want their children to be better and better, they should create a good family atmosphere for their children, so as to avoid their insecurity and impatience caused by excessive irritability and indifference, which will affect their future development and their own personality.

A loving family will naturally attract more people by making children behave gently, and the charm he shows is something that many people can't copy.

2) Children feel safe.

For children living in loving families, they have a strong sense of security. In the process of getting along with my parents, I have established a relatively obvious attachment relationship with my parents since I was a child, which will also make them feel more secure inside.

Only for those families that are always fragmented, children can't feel the care of their parents, and even live with an indifferent attitude.

After a long time, children will feel insecure about their families and even show a relatively indifferent state.

We want our children to get better and better, and giving them a sense of security is the most important factor. Only when they feel dependent can they travel and explore constantly.

3) Children are willing to express.

Communication is a very important part. If everyone is indifferent in the process of getting along with their parents, it will naturally make both sides more miserable.

Therefore, we should also know that it is more important for children to express themselves. Under the watering of love, children will naturally be willing to tell their parents.

No matter some problems in children's life or some difficulties encountered in study, as long as they are willing to talk to their parents, they will show their love for their parents.

As parents, we should also be aware of the importance of children's expression and communicate with them more. In some families, it is extremely strange that children may not talk to their parents more than a few words a month.

How should parents use the "art of love" to make their children smarter, more sensible, more obedient and more distinctive?

From the above analysis, we also understand the role of love in children's getting along with their parents, and at the same time, it can also promote children's continuous growth.

As we said above, in order to make children smarter, more sensible, more obedient and more distinctive, parents must let their children enjoy love and keep moving forward on the basis of love.

Respect is the most direct expression of love.

The growth of children themselves is their personal choice. When the children are born, all parents have to do is give them some guidance.

But now many parents always respond to their children's growth with a more experienced attitude, and even directly express their intention to arrange their children's lives.

Parents will interfere in the choice of children's interests or their academic choices, so disrespect for children's attitude will directly affect their inner true thoughts. Won't the child show rebellious psychology?

(2) Communication increases love.

Communication is necessary in the process of getting along with children. We can find that under those indifferent conditions, the relationship between people has almost dropped to freezing point.

Therefore, it is necessary to understand the intimate relationship between parents and children, communicate constantly and make the relationship more harmonious.

Even if the "three-year-old generation gap" becomes more and more obvious, parents should consider finding topics that their children like and constantly communicate with them.

If we communicate with our children as parents instead of friends for a long time, it will only make us farther and farther away from our children.

Such a child has little to do with his parents even if he goes to such a life in the future.

Getting along and companionship are the most important catalysts for love.

Many parents choose to go out to work in order to let their children enjoy better resources, which seems to give them better conditions, but actually affects their inner feelings.

Especially those children whose parents are away from home for a long time, they are more miserable and even think that their parents have abandoned them?

What we need to understand is that companionship is the most important catalyst for love. Seven days of annual leave a year can't make the relationship between parents and children more harmonious.

Only by long-term contact with children can we understand their characteristics, constantly explore their potential and promote them to become better.

Expressing expectation is the highest expression of love.

Of course, in addition to the respect, communication and communication mentioned above, the most important thing is to make children better and better. In this process, parents need to express their expectations for their children.

Some children actually keep moving forward with the encouragement of their parents, because they think their parents' expectations are more important and hope not to embarrass their parents.

Whether it is to let children get the first place in the exam or to let them learn some talents, the expression of parents is more important to children.

We also hope that every parent can clearly understand what kind of person they want their children to be and truly praise their children.

In the process of children's growth, their situation is actually related to parents' own education.

Since you want your child to get better and better, you should also know what kind of influence your behavior has on your child.

The art of love mentioned above, I hope every parent can understand it and use it in life to get along better with children.