Because children are very young, there is no right or wrong in their world, and they don't know if they are doing it right. Nowadays, most parents will loudly scold or even beat their children when they make mistakes. In fact, this traditional way of education is wrong, because you think it is wrong and don't think it is unreasonable in his world. Your scolding will hurt the child and have no effect. The correct way is to let them make mistakes and then deal with them.

2, the principle of non-criticism

At present, most parents severely criticize their children when they do something wrong. This wrong educational method will hurt their self-confidence and lead them to lose themselves. Later, they may become inferior and timid. Therefore, for children aged 0 to 3, what you tell him is really far more than criticizing him, so that he can learn to judge right and wrong slowly.

3, no pressure principle

Every parent wants their children to succeed. Because of this mentality, parents turn all their hopes into pressure on their children, so that they can bear the pressure from an early age. In fact, selfish parents blindly abuse authority in front of young children, forcing them to do things they don't want to do, filling their hearts with fear and tension and gradually losing their courage. They also lost their innocence when they were young, so parents want their children to grow up in an independent and equal environment, so that they will become better in the future.