1. In a crowded situation, everyone has self-esteem and face, and so do children. When children are young, they have a simple personality and strong self-esteem, sometimes even stronger than adults. Therefore, when there are many people, or when relatives and friends are in public, parents should not reprimand their children, which will easily hurt their self-esteem and make their personality defective. If the child makes a mistake in public, parents should not reprimand the child at the first time, because the tougher the parents' attitude at this time, the child will quarrel with the parents and will have resistance to the parents. Parents can treat their children in a gentle way at this time, first stop their children's wrong behavior, and then educate their children when there are few people to let them know their mistakes.
Second, don't scold the children when eating. Nowadays, most parents live at a very fast pace. They usually have little time to spend with their children and have little chance to eat with them. It is difficult for everyone to put down their work and study at night and eat normally. If parents scold their children at this time, everyone will be disappointed. So if parents have anything to say, it's best to wait until the children have finished eating.
Third, before going to bed at night, parents had better not scold their children before going to bed at night. If children are scolded by their parents before going to bed, it will be very sad to sleep at night, which will lead to insomnia. Some children will have nightmares at night because of being scolded, which will seriously affect the quality of sleep. The quality of children's sleep is related to their growth and mental state the next day, so parents had better not scold their children before they go to bed.