When it comes to being a man, I think everyone will have a ruler in their heart to measure people's requirements. In my opinion, learning to bear and tolerate is the basic requirement of being a man and the premise of dealing with interpersonal relationships. A person who has never experienced failure, his life will not be rich; A person who has never experienced suffering will have no connotation in his life. He will always be an immature person. There are many unspeakable sufferings in the world. If he is a strong man, he must learn to bear it! Reality sometimes contradicts ideals. Maybe you have an ideal lamp in your heart, but it seems out of reach. Maybe you want to do good, but you've made a mess of things. Maybe you hate vulgarity, but you are addicted to all the trivial things in the world; Maybe you planted seeds, but because of your poor self-cultivation, you paid all your efforts but could not bear fruit; Maybe your heart is beyond yourself, but in reality you deny it one by one. If you are resilient and believe in yourself, learn to bear it! There is a saying that patience is perfect. Patience does not mean giving in, but accumulating strength to prepare for the next success. Patience is farsightedness. Be patient for a while, calm down and take a step back. You can stand in the sudden storm and express your dissatisfaction. You don't need to pay attention to it, because you know that without the sadness of the storm, there will be no rare joy after the storm. Maybe the sudden arrival of winter will make you cold to the bone, but you don't need to hit the winter door with your whole body to express your resistance. You don't need to care, because you know, if winter comes, can spring be far behind? There are many unexpected things in life. That is, "I want to cross the Yellow River, but the ice is choking and the ferry has to climb the snow-capped mountains." Otherwise, how can there be a sigh that "the road is difficult to walk, it is difficult to walk, there are many roads, and now we are safe"? But if you can bear everything, you can fall down and get up again, and you will still have the lofty aspirations and thousands of lofty sentiments of "I will climb the wind and break the waves one day and sail straight for the sea". Then while learning to bear, we must also know how to tolerate. Tolerance. Tolerance is one of the best qualities of human beings. People with a broad mind always focus on the overall situation and can make up for the public interest. They often only see the advantages of others, but don't stare at each other's shortcomings. Tolerance gives people a lot, and happiness is the first reward. Whenever and wherever, as long as you tolerate others and forgive their unintentional mistakes, you will have many sincere smiles and you will have a lot of happiness. If you learn to be tolerant, you will get happiness; When you learn tolerance, you will know that heart and heart are actually very close. So I want to say that if you want to learn to be a man, you must learn to bear and learn to tolerate. Only in this way can you become the brightest one among the stars; Only in this way can you sail smoothly to the other side of success; Only in this way will the world become a better place because of you.