After the tragedy, most of the comments were directed at 5-year-old Xiong Haizi. But, think about it, is it really the child's fault? If you want to be held accountable, the parents of two children are the ones responsible, right?
Let's start with a 2-year-old girl. The news did not say why the guardian let such a small child out of the sight of adults, but it was the most direct cause of the tragedy.
Besides, a 5-year-old boy, such a small child, will not know what is dangerous and what is safe if he has no education. It was only his parents' lack of safety education that led to his arbitrary behavior.
Then the question is, how should parents educate such a small child about safety?
Today, I recommend 10 set of safety education picture books to my parents to read with my children.
1, "Little Rabbit Lost"
The child's exploration begins from birth, and he will look at the world in front of him with curious eyes. Take him out to play when he is older. He will look around and enjoy it. By the age of three or four, his curiosity was even stronger and he couldn't wait to try everything. For children, curiosity is very precious, so we should protect it well, but we should also let children understand that we should pay attention to safety while exploring.
Suitable reading age: 0-4 years old
2. Tom Lost
The painting style of Tom Rabbit series is anthropomorphic, which is very close to our real life. When reading these contents to children, I will secretly admire the author's wisdom: this kind of seamless education allows children to know how to face their own problems through laughter and parents to learn how to deal with these problems.
Suitable reading age: 0-6 years old
3. "My first set of parent-child safety picture books"
This set of books consists of four volumes:
"It's safe to walk and ride a bike": teach children traffic rules and let them form a sense of obeying them.
Mom, please don't worry about me: let the children learn to avoid possible dangers in public places.
I am not a stupid child: let children learn how to protect themselves when they encounter crimes against children.
"You can't get hurt": Tell your child what daily necessities at home may be dangerous.
The arrangement of this set of books is very lively and interesting, which suits the children's appetite. It successfully captures the children's interest, and the conversion between the content in the book and the real situation in life is very natural and easy for children to accept. There are also some parent-child interactions that can make children not only listen, but also use their brains.
Suitable reading age: 2-8 years old
4. "Smart children have unique skills in safety."
This set of books includes 12 volumes:
Braised corn pig's mouth: teaching children the safety knowledge of eating.
Wolves want bread: teach children to say "no" bravely in time.
"Mao Mao Rabbit Becomes Bald and Bald Rabbit": Teach children not to play with fire and put out fire.
Mom is gone: teach children what to do when they are separated from their families.
Jumping monkeys to play with elevators: matters needing attention in teaching children to take elevators
Open the door: teach children how to protect themselves at home alone
"Fat Pig Sewing Ass": Teach children the safety knowledge of taking transportation.
Babies in sandpits: teaching children about safety measures in playgrounds.
The clothes hanger of jumping monkey: teaching children the safety knowledge of using tableware
Duck-footed Mao Mao Rabbit: Teach children to choose a good game place carefully.
Car falling out: the importance of teaching children to put things back.
Please come with me: teach children anti-fraud countermeasures
Small frame, easy to carry, beautiful picture, and the story is closer to life. The book is divided into three parts: first, children's songs, second, stories, and third, interaction, including expansion activities. The book begins with a children's song to introduce the theme, and then the story content. In the next interaction, there was a safety quiz, asking what you would do if you couldn't find your mother, and so on. You can see from the child's answer whether the child has mastered the skills of finding a mother. In the interaction, "like a mother-in-law's exhortation" is to remind parents to tell their children something at ordinary times. At the end of the book, there is a "language paradise", including sentence-making, and there is an expression museum in the extension activities to let children know what expressions represent what feelings, and also to support children to draw various expressions.
The final extension activity is "I am proud", which allows children to retell the content of the story and enhance their understanding!
Suitable reading age: 2-8 years old
5. Safety first
The signal and idea conveyed by this book to children is safety first and prevention first. Children are curious and like to explore. In their exploration, as long as they are always reminded to take precautions to ensure safety and freedom are still theirs.
Suitable reading age: 2-8 years old
6. Cultivation of self-protection consciousness
This set of books consists of two volumes:
Don't try to bully me: inspire children's courage to resist external harm
"I'm not going with you": Be wary of strangers.
Before and after entering the park, every parent will encounter similar problems: will children be bullied by other children in kindergarten, and how to educate their children after being bullied? Also, there are so many bad guys now, how to make children enhance their awareness of prevention. These two picture books vividly describe these problems encountered by children and let them know some common sense of reading.
Suitable reading age: 2-9 years old
7. Child safety 365
This set of books consists of four volumes:
Bravely say I don't want it: let children realize that their bodies are precious and others can't touch them casually; You can't go with strangers without mom and dad's permission; Speak your feelings bravely and say "no" loudly to those bad people who want to cheat and infringe on themselves!
"I will be disciplined at school": introduce all kinds of dangers that may occur after school, teach children to pay attention to traffic safety on the road, observe discipline in class, and how to deal with dangerous situations, so that children can understand the importance of discipline to themselves and others and reassure parents.
A person at home is not afraid: what items are there at home that a person can't touch casually at home? What should I do if I accidentally get hurt? How to respond to strangers? What should I pay attention to when playing in the community?
I will be very careful when I go out: pay attention to safety when I go out, take transportation, go to the toilet, take the elevator and play with amusement equipment. Measures that can be taken if you get lost when shopping in supermarkets, going to amusement parks and other places.
Suitable reading age: 3- 10 years old
8. Polly-My first traffic safety story.
This set of books consists of 24 volumes:
Take the deformed car as the traffic police, and pay attention to traffic safety with children, including 24 themes such as crossing crosswalks safely, paying attention to blind spots, playing ball by the roadside, and hidden dangers at turning intersections, so as to protect the baby from traffic accidents in all directions and keep the children away from school!
Suitable reading age: 2-8 years old
9. My safety training book
This set of books consists of four volumes, including Waterfront Safety, Road Safety, Outdoor Safety and Home Safety.
At home, on the road, by the pond, when traveling, how can we keep children away from danger and let parents worry about their own affairs? This book encourages children to think independently about the possible consequences of their actions and inspires their sense of responsibility to ensure their own safety through open discussion.
Suitable reading age: 4-9 years old
10, learn to love yourself
This set of books is divided into three series, totaling 14 volumes. Here we recommend the first series of three volumes:
"Don't touch me casually": Let the children know which secret parts of their bodies can't be touched casually, and how to deal with sexual assault.
Don't kiss me casually: this book not only teaches children to express their views bravely and protect themselves, but also tells adults a truth: expressing love for children in a way that children can accept is the real love for children!
Don't go with strangers casually: teach children how to deal with crises when they meet bad people.
Suitable reading age: 3-9 years old
It is suggested that children watch three series in different periods, because it not only talks about personal safety, but also involves mental health problems, which is the education that every child should receive.
We have recommended this set of books before, and also held a parent-child reading meeting. If you are interested, you can click: Invitation Letter to Parent-child Reading Club | Psychological Safety Education: Don't just click on me.
Safety education is the top priority of children's education, and neither personal safety nor psychological safety can be ignored. Mom and dad, choose a picture book suitable for children and read it with them!
Parent-child co-reading is the best parent-child companionship. Through this kind of companionship, we can not only enhance the parent-child relationship, but also cultivate children's reading habits and comprehensive abilities, including observation ability, thinking ability and expression ability.
Children who grow up in reading have love and strength!
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