How to educate the children of junior high school students?
1, give children more praise and encouragement.
Giving children more appreciative eyes is conducive to cultivating children's good moral behavior habits and qualities, and is conducive to enhancing parents' trust in their children. If you give your child more appreciation, you will see his unique strengths and advantages, see his little progress, affirm him, encourage her persistently, guide him patiently, treat him calmly and support him with practical actions. This is very necessary.
2. Accept your child's shortcomings
Parents accept the negative emotions of junior high school children, and children will also believe their feelings, accept their emotions, gradually get rid of negative emotions, actively seek solutions to problems, and be responsible for their emotions. However, if parents refuse to accept their children's negative emotions and force them to suppress their emotions, then children will gradually stop believing in their feelings and will not accept negative emotions.
Parents set aside their own time and space for their children.
Parents care about their children, but they can't be nannies for junior high school children, send them to and from school, read books by themselves, and everything revolves around them, which will make junior high school children dependent. Parents should take the initiative to find some time and space and put their children aside for the time being. This is not to neglect children, but to create a better psychological environment for children. Educating junior high school children does not mean that parents should give up personal needs and communication between husband and wife.
Step 4 set an example
Example is an important way to influence and educate children with other people's good thoughts and behaviors. For example, classmates, neighbors, teachers, heroes and model figures, positive figures in literary and artistic works, and excellent qualities of revolutionary leaders are all objects for children to learn and imitate. Whether parents' words and deeds are right or wrong, they have a very profound impact on children. Therefore, parents should always show themselves everywhere in their daily lives.
5. Strengthen the connection between home and school
Family is the first classroom for children to receive education, and family education is the foundation of school education. Moreover, school education is for all students, and teachers' energy is limited. Therefore, the teacher's attention will be more or less concentrated, so it is easy to produce some neglect. There are all kinds of strange phenomena in the education of junior high school children, either letting themselves go or letting them go; Either, you are worried, but you can't control it. Attaching importance to home-school cooperation is one of the key links to improve the quality of education in an all-round way.