2. Fathers love children because they are worthy of love, so they often love the most promising children; Mothers love their children because they need love, so they love the most worthless children. This sentence may not be applicable to all families, but it is applicable to quite a few families.
3. Psychologist william james once said: "The deepest need of human nature is the desire to be appreciated and praised by others." No matter how old the child is, the most curable thing is the recognition of parents!
4. The traditional parent-child relationship in China is such a huge defect: no companionship, no communication and no understanding.
5. American "Parents" magazine once summed up the uniqueness of fathers: fathers are different from mothers; Fathers prefer to play with children; Fathers play a greater role in promoting children; The language used by the father is more complicated; Fathers have more constraints on their children; The father makes the child more socialized and prepares him for entering the real world; Introduce the role and behavior of men in real life; Father supports mother; Fathers will help children develop their potential; Father will play an irreplaceable role in our growth. But if they "don't push" or "push too hard", they will hurt each other more than love. Blood relationship is innate, but father-son affection is not. The father missed the first half of his child's life, so he had to miss it.
6. The best educational environment is inclusive, which has two basic characteristics: when the child develops well, recognize him and support him when the child is frustrated.
7. There is no hierarchy at home, only right and wrong.
8. In feudal society, the father is the son, the father is the sky, and the father is always right. This is the limitation of the times. Now this concept of conservative bondage is no longer applicable, and children are gradually perfecting their own concepts of right and wrong during their growth. Parents need to be clear about right and wrong in life, and don't refuse to admit mistakes for fear of losing "authority". No one is perfect. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake. The key is whether you dare to admit your mistakes and correct them.