First, set an example.

Teaching by example is more important than teaching by example. Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A parent who doesn't like learning and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, a parent who knows nothing, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar behavior, selfishness and disrespect for the elderly, will not cultivate good children. Example is an important way to influence and educate children with other people's good thoughts and behaviors. Whether parents' words and deeds are right or wrong, they have a very profound impact on children. Therefore, parents should always show themselves everywhere in their daily lives. ?

Second, environmental edification.

Children should have a good small environment for learning, not for luxury, but for atmosphere. Students should avoid unnecessary family chats, friends gatherings, etc. When learning, include as many defects as possible. Look at the child with a magnifying glass. You know, there are no perfect children in the world, even perfect children have their own defects. Parents' unconditional trust in their children is an important basis for communication with their children. Parents should create a good environment for their children to be infected and edified. Family is the primary place for Children's Day. Parents should organize good days, handle the relationship between members, adhere to the correct principles of moral behavior, form a United and harmonious family atmosphere, establish an orderly day order, and cultivate children's good interests.

Third, criticize rewards and punishments.

Criticism, reward and punishment are all negative for children's bad thinking behavior, but the latter is an educational method for serious bad thinking behavior. When criticizing rewards and punishments, we must first fully understand the situation, grasp the specific circumstances and severity of bad thoughts and behaviors, and proceed from the reality of the fault. Criticism is to point out the damage and root of thinking, deny its thinking behavior, make it feel ashamed and painful, and thus have the motivation to correct its mistakes. Don't satirize, laugh at or curse when criticizing. Rewards and punishments mainly plunder some kind of power, not corporal punishment, not insulting personality and destroying body and mind.