The pursuit of perfection is often frustrating, but improvement is real. Just as we study, we all want to improve the present situation. We should treat children equally. Acknowledge and encourage their every progress, rather than demanding perfection.

Discover the advantages of children

We often only see the shortcomings of children and ignore the advantages of children. In fact, every child has an 85% advantage waiting for us to discover.

Keep a clear head

Practicing this knowledge may face family members' incomprehension or colleagues' criticism, but remember, keep a clear head and insist on doing the most effective things. When encountering problems and pressures, leave the crowd for a while and think about how to solve the problems alone.

Special time

There is a special time every day. It doesn't have to be an hour's commitment every day, but let the children know that this time is specially set up for them. Even a few minutes a day can make children feel special and have a sense of belonging.

Encourage progress

We often use praise to make children achieve certain behavioral goals, but can this really improve children's self-esteem? Self-esteem is actually cultivated from coping with disappointment, solving problems and mistakes, and it is a sense of self-confidence and ability.

Train children

Don't forget to spend time training children. When we ask them to tidy the room, tell them how to do it step by step. Remember, children need guidance and encouragement, not perfection.