1, patient communication: rebellious children are difficult to communicate, and most of them don't listen to their parents and teachers. Parents and teachers should be more patient when communicating with them. Children will inevitably make some mistakes during this period. Only a little more patience, serious communication with children and knowing what children are thinking can we teach children well.

2. Relieve stress: Many parents and teachers only know how to give their children pressure to learn, but don't communicate with them. They don't know their psychological state, heavy homework and exam ranking. They only know that they want to enter a good school, but they don't care about their psychological endurance. In fact, children are not less stressed than their parents. If the mental stress is too great and there is no proper relaxation, it is not conducive to their growth.

3. Respect and trust: Young people's spiritual growth, longing for autonomy, being denied by parents and teachers, will increase their rebellious mentality. There is an idea that you think is impossible, so I will show it to you and get the approval of parents and teachers. Parents and teachers should not only see their children's shortcomings, but also pay attention to their advantages and trust them. Let them do what they should let go.

4. Empathy: In fact, every parent and teacher also grew up from adolescence and had a rebellious period. In the face of children's rebellious psychology, we should put ourselves in their shoes, understand the reasons for children's rebellious behavior, think about why children do this, find out the reasons for the problems, and reduce children's rebellious psychology.