Listen to the children's opinions more.
Listening is a very effective means of education, especially for children who have their own opinions. In matters involving children, listen to their opinions and make them feel respected and understood, so that parents and children will feel relaxed.
Teach children to choose and learn to be modest.
Parents can subtly tell their children that really smart people often take a step back so that everyone can have fun. When two children want to play with the same toy, they can discuss how to take turns or play together. For stubborn and independent children, there is no need to emphasize the concept of being the first, but they should gradually learn to be modest before the age of 4.
Parental code of conduct
Children's stubborn personality mostly comes from their parents' personality genes, so parents should also cultivate themselves and not be too stubborn. At the same time, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds and try to avoid quarreling in front of their children. Especially avoid quarreling over trifles at dinner.
Not too accommodating to children.
Even if you use more strategies and tricks, sometimes it is a test of endurance to treat stubborn children. When all tolerance, understanding, respect or democracy fail, parents should exercise their rights. For example, when a child refuses to go to bed at bedtime, parents can take the child to bed and clearly tell the child that it is time to go to bed, even if he is asleep now, he must stay in bed.