When parents find that their children have vanity, they should observe its intensity patiently. If there is only a little vanity, then parents should make good use of this vanity, guide their children to a positive outlook on life, and establish their healthy and confident personality characteristics.
If a child's vanity is found to be heavy, then parents should immediately realize that this vanity is morbid and must find ways to curb the momentum of vanity. The method is generally to say "no" to the child firmly. Parents disapprove of letting their children know their vanity and even threaten to expose it in front of everyone. In this case, the child will generally converge.
Second, how to deal with children's vanity:
When children have vanity, parents should carefully observe what is the root of vanity.
If this vanity is caused by children's physical defects or family poverty, parents should set an example, convey positive values and aesthetics to their children, objectively evaluate their advantages and disadvantages, help their children recognize themselves, and help them build self-confidence from the advantages they already have. Parents should not avoid those parts of their children's extreme inferiority, but should face up to these problems and accompany their children to overcome them.
If children's vanity is caused by their superior family conditions or outstanding talents in a certain aspect, then parents should pay attention to their own behavior, be reasonable when giving their children pocket money, don't show off their children as capital, and try to establish a common humility for their children, so that they can understand that there are two days behind the scenes and there are people outside. Parents should first try their best to suppress their children's arrogance, so that their vanity will naturally decrease in the process of continuous growth, and finally return to rationality and be an educated and objective child.
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