It is easier to teach children when their nature has not been polluted. We should teach them according to what Confucius said: "Love can be gained for nothing", don't spoil them too much, and don't encourage their indulgence. When children form bad habits, it is difficult to teach them. At this time, we should educate them in the way of Mencius' "If you can't cultivate Chinese, you can't cultivate talents", and don't give them up easily, so they will lose the opportunity to turn over a new leaf.

"The beginning of life is naturally good; Sex is similar and learning is far away. " It can be seen that there is no essential difference in human nature, and most of the differences between people are caused by different learning styles or living environments. Parents should educate their children from an early age, and they should not indulge and cover up their mistakes just because their children are young and ignorant. Children are naive in nature and naive in thought. This is the best time to cultivate their upward kindness. It will be very difficult to wait until they get into bad social habits before thinking about changing.

If the child is really infected with bad habits such as arrogance in the acquired environment, parents can't give up control or ignore it, and don't give the child a chance to repent and start over. We should first accept our children's mistakes with a tolerant attitude, then try to make them realize their mistakes, and finally educate them step by step with emotion and rational understanding. As long as we persist in education, we will always abandon evil and turn over a new leaf.