Master: invincible, willful and lovely little princess
Rui Rui: 3 years and 6 months, (personality: blx's stubbornness, arbitrarily switching between pungent and gentle, invincible and willful)
As the father of two daughters, the method and patience of educating children are far from enough! Every day, I am still constantly rethinking whether I have done it right or not! My daughter didn't learn to understand, or I didn't know my daughter well enough and didn't have the patience to integrate into their world! My wife said that after reading my diary, she wrote about my sister's shortcomings, but didn't write about her advantages, and she kept praising her!
I feel more or less biased! Isn't it my fault that I didn't find the advantages of my sister? You need to reflect on yourself! Finding the good side of children and learning to praise them more will make them happier!
In fact, I have no prejudice against my sister. My sister is also a very sensible child, but she doesn't like to express herself when she is unhappy or angry. Her impatience is very similar to mine! In retrospect, I was not like her when I was angry. It's just that I'm an adult and I can control my emotions!
My sister especially likes to express her thoughts when she is happy. She whispered in your ear from time to time: "Dad, I love you!" " ""Mom, I love you! "
When she gets delicious snacks, she will give them to her sister, parents and parents-in-law! Even the last bite, she gave it to you Although she really wants to eat!
At this point, my sister keeps me warm! Like a little cotton-padded jacket!
However, when she is contradictory or unhappy, it is my biggest headache!
When she wants something, she just says "I want it"! Everything you say goes in one ear and out the other! There are two kinds of responses, one is to repeat "I want" and the other is to scream!
Just like going to school in the morning, she never gives in because she chooses the way to travel! She doesn't like the smell of cars-"smelly", but she likes electric cars to travel!
So I went downstairs and to the elevator. I asked my sister's advice: "Sister, it's raining today. It's very cold. Shall we drive to school?"
"ok!" My sister's answer was a bit unexpected.
My sister and my sister are waiting for me in the same place. My sister's face changed when I drove to pick them up! A face of disgust. As soon as I approached her, she covered her nose with her little hand and began to feel sick and vomit.
"Sister, get on the bus quickly, or we will be late again." I said as I walked.
"Don't! ! ! I don't want to get on the bus! " Little by little, sister, step back and answer!
"Didn't you promise me? Why not? " I'm a little helpless! Go over and pick up your sister. She immediately struggled desperately. I took out a perfume stick from the car and gave it to her. I tried to get her on the bus, but I still couldn't solve it! (Usually driving out to play, she thinks the car smells of perfume. )
I compromised. "Then let's ride an electric car!" Sister has been crying, still not getting on the bus! We are at an impasse again!
That's weird! A few minutes ago, I went downstairs happily, and suddenly I was searching inexplicably! No matter what I said or coaxed, she read the San Zi Jing to me again-I don't want it! ! ! Ten minutes later, I was worried that they were too late for school and didn't have breakfast. I'm getting impatient!
I also pulled a face angrily and yelled at my sister: "You don't have to go to school, go home!" " "I walked into the elevator with my sister in my arms and called my wife to let her go downstairs to pick it up. Leave her with his wife as soon as the elevator starts. At the last moment when the elevator door closed, my sister's crying made people feel distressed and angry!
When I sent my sister to school, I asked her, "Sister! Is there any way to cure your sister? "
My sister is also quite helpless: "What can I do? She is unreasonable! It's no use saying anything! "
Seeing my sister coming back from school, my sister followed her mother downstairs. This time, she was a little afraid to see me. I looked back at her on the way to school, and she looked at me secretly with her head down!
After sending my two sisters to school, I came home to hear my wife say that my sister was afraid that I wouldn't send her to school, and she never dared to talk on the way! My sister said to my mother, "Dad won't give me school!" " When asked why she was crying, she said, "Dad hugged me so tightly that it hurts me to death!" " ! I just cried! "
I recalled that when I got on the bus with my sister on my back, I did push a little hard when she struggled. I didn't observe my daughter attentively. I need more patience to face them! Need more integration into their world!
As people often say, a daughter is her father's little lover. I owe her so much in my last life that I must pay it back in this life! Give it back to her for life!
Educating children is a great learning!
What skills do you have? I hope you can give me some advice!
Problem to be solved: My little daughter doesn't like to express her dissatisfaction. Is there any way to make her dare to face it?