Second, respect understanding. Due to the high voice against puppy love in society, families often don't allow children to have normal heterosexual contacts in their early years, which leads to some children's rebellious psychology. However, teachers in some schools are afraid that students will make mistakes in puppy love, regard puppy love as a scourge, and are indifferent to the communication between boys and girls. Parents should fully understand the characteristics of children in this period, and allow and encourage children to have normal communication with the opposite sex. Respect their privacy, don't open their letters privately and read their diaries. We should strengthen communication and get to know their inner world in time. Always have a heart-to-heart relationship with them and be a trustworthy friend of your child.
Third, scientific guidance. Once many parents know that their children are in puppy love, they will ban it. The more parents are like this, the more rebellious their children are. In fact, parents should point out their children's blind impulse psychology in time. Guide their normal communication in a targeted manner. Help them transcend emotions rationally and cultivate noble sentiments.
Fourth, enrich your spare time. Parents should encourage their children to participate in extracurricular activities and try to accompany them if possible. On the one hand, it can enrich children's lives, attract their attention and divert their attention. On the other hand, let them get enough emotional satisfaction at home.
Fifth, treat it calmly. Once a child really tries "puppy love", he should also control his feelings and never accuse or abuse them. The key is not to provoke children and make them rebel. Parents should be gentle and drizzling to help their children adjust their mentality.
2 How do parents deal with their children's puppy love
1, don't beat and scold her: when the child is in adolescence and is officially rebellious, if the parents criticize and scold her blindly, the child will have a serious rebellious mentality. She doesn't know what harm puppy love will do. All she knows is that she likes to play with that boy. When her parents beat and scold her, it will only make her feel that her parents don't love her. If her parents exaggerate, she will think that boy is better and follow her. At this time, her parents will beat and scold her. Therefore, when parents know that their daughter is in puppy love, they should calm down and relax and communicate with their children.
2. It's normal to tell your daughter that she likes boys: girls are puppy love and parents are worried, but don't exaggerate to make children feel that things are serious and that they have done something very wrong and dare not say anything. Parents are afraid to speak when communicating with her. Parents should tell their daughters that girls will have a good impression on boys at this time, and you feel very happy with him. This is the normal physiological reaction of every girl, not just you. At this time, girls will put aside their shyness, accept their parents' communication, have a good talk with their parents and accept their suggestions.
3. Be friendly between classmates and friends: After your child accepts your communication, you should tell your child that you will not only have a good impression on this boy in the future, because you are still young and meet too few people or things, so don't be alone with this boy. As your friend or classmate, you should associate with him, learn from each other and urge each other, not only him, but also other friends or classmates. These words are to let the child know that you like others more because you spend too much on that person alone, so that she can contact other people.