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"Happy Education" a bowl of poisoned chicken soup
I don't know when or which "educator" put forward "happy education". As a result, the whole society rose up and responded. Many parents regard this sentence as a classic. As long as their children like it, they can do whatever they want. They regard some uncivilized behaviors of children as releasing their nature without criticism, resulting in many children losing even the most basic manners, and many families have to pay for their own indulgence education.

? "If you don't suffer from learning, you have to suffer from life". Under the influence of "happy education", our parents lack a rational understanding of their children's education, which makes their children form a bad habit of being free and loose, impatient with learning, indifferent to life and without awe of their parents and teachers. When they enter the society, they find that they know nothing. At this time, they will come back and complain that their parents are incompetent and can't find them a good job, thus doubling.

Children's education is a gradual process. Parents should strictly discipline their children when they are young, let them know what is right and what is bad behavior, form a strong concept of right and wrong, and at the same time cultivate their frugal quality and develop the habit of thrift. Once a good habit is formed, it is hard for a child not to be excellent.

Fundamentally speaking, education is to achieve people's career. To put it bluntly, it is to make children become excellent people. And excellent people all have one thing in common, they all know how to stick to it and know how to be hard on themselves. Because they know that the competition in society is very fierce. If you don't work hard and insist on learning, you can only be eliminated by society. The biggest problem of happy education is that it can only be applied to families, but not to this society. Parents can respect their children and let them have a happy childhood, but society will not accommodate adults with poor abilities.

Education is never a happy thing. It can even be said to be pain. Because education is a challenge that requires a lot of effort! Respect children's choices and let them study happily and freely. This kind of education looks really ideal. But in fact, "happy education" is just a bowl of poisoned chicken soup. This is like a mine planted in advance, which will end in tragedy one day.

Behind any success is constant efforts and dedication. There is a good saying: the world is fair, and every step of your life is paving the way for the future.

? In life, there is never a road in vain, and every step counts. The harder you work, the luckier you will be. A senior of Zhejiang University became popular because of his full schedule. Work and rest are arranged from 6: 00 am to 2: 30 pm every day/kloc-0. The learning content of each time period in a week is accurate to a few minutes, and the learning state can be said to be every second counts. Although he was admitted to the university that many people dreamed of, he never slacked off. His classmates broke the news and said, "This is our senior, and he can be called a god-like existence in Zhejiang University. Good grades are nothing, the key is to be able to play, fly a plane, dive, and make your own fashion ... "If we don't see this timetable, we may envy him and think that he is really lucky, and he must be a child of a rich family, and he can get everything he wants without studying hard. But these are just excuses that most of us use to anesthetize ourselves. Because this timetable reveals real efforts everywhere. Success is reserved for those who keep working hard! Who is so lucky to appear out of thin air? As long as you work hard enough, you will be lucky to get the life you want. As the pianist Lang Lang said, "Some abilities are born, but talent doesn't mean that you will get more with less effort. Life comes step by step, and the next step is to take this step. "

There is no instant success in the world, only persistence over time. In this process, we have to go through many difficulties and pay a lot of sweat to harvest sweet fruits. The edge of the sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold. So, dear parents, please stop advocating happy education. Behind any success, there are extraordinary efforts, and there is nothing in the world for nothing. Please also tell your children that there is no free pain in this world. What you have suffered will light up your way forward.