From the heart, it is very simple, which is nothing more than paying attention to your own image, mass discipline, safety and so on.
After so many years, I remember very clearly that our instructor once told us earnestly in the pre-holiday education: "study abroad all the year round and go home during the holidays." When you get home, your mouth will be sweeter. When you see a villager handing cigarettes to others, calling him uncle will not lower your status. "
I have never smoked, but I really take his words to heart.
Usually I speak Mandarin at school. I don't go out for two days before I get home, because people will not be able to react when I speak Mandarin in front of the villagers, and I will feel a little embarrassed.
I got used to it for two days, and when I opened my mouth, it was a local accent, and everyone was more affectionate.
My wife once worked as a social worker in an apartment for the elderly for several years. For her, the most rewarding job is to talk to someone.
When the leader arranged this job for her at that time, she once communicated with me. I told her that when I was leading troops in the army, the main management means was talking.
At that time, we were called knowing and loving soldiers, also called regular ideological work. In heart-to-heart, in addition to understanding each other's work and life, we should also understand each other's thoughts and all aspects of the situation, and make records.
My wife has basically implemented our practice. She spent nearly a month talking with the elderly and nursing staff living in the apartment.
Of course, she doesn't have any worries about the old people calling them uncles and aunts, but she once struggled with the names of nursing staff, but it was quickly solved through heart-to-heart, and she also felt that she was well integrated into her work through heart-to-heart.
Those old people are very affectionate when they see her, and the nurses respect and support her.
3. This is true both in life and in the workplace. It is almost the consensus of all adults to have a sweeter mouth.
But it doesn't seem easy for teenagers to call their uncles and aunts when they meet.
Some are shy, some are arrogant, and some are because they don't know what to call them.
All the children in our family are in high school, so are they.
I went to the school gate in the morning and met my neighbor's big brother. Everyone took the initiative to talk to him, but he didn't respond.
But if you criticize him face to face, you can only record it here first and share it with him when you have a chance.
Or one day he really suffers in the workplace, and then see?