Mencius was so scared that he carefully asked his mother why she did it. Mencius' mother answered him, "What's the difference between you not studying hard and neglecting your studies and me cutting this cloth?" Some people study for their own reputation. Only by studying more can we acquire knowledge, do things quietly in peacetime and avoid unnecessary disasters. If you don't study hard now, you may work as a coolie in the future, and disaster is inevitable. Why is this different from knitting? If you don't make it to the end, how can you let your son and husband have food and clothing? If a woman gives up the necessities needed to produce a family, if a man gives up his morality and upbringing, then the family can only be enslaved if it doesn't become a thief and robber! "Mencius got a fright after hearing this. From then on, he studied hard from morning till night and finally became a famous scholar. This is the story of Meng Mu's rags.
In the story of Meng Mu's broken weaving, Mencius' mother uses broken weaving as a metaphor for learning, and uses broken weaving as a metaphor for neglecting her studies, which is vivid and convincing. This incident greatly influenced Mencius and changed his attitude towards learning. Mencius' final success was inseparable from his mother. The article "Meng Mu Jiezi" is a classical Chinese written by Han Ying in the Han Dynasty, which comes from "History of Han Poetry". The general content is that Mencius' mother taught Mencius to face things that cannot be abandoned halfway. The article "Meng Mu Xun" written by Han Ying is about Mencius reciting the text when he was young. When Mencius recited the text, Mencius' mother listened to him as he recited it. Mencius suddenly stopped in the middle of reciting, paused and continued to recite. Mencius' mother knew that he had forgotten the contents of the book and was a little angry, so she called Mencius to her side. Why did Mencius pause when reciting the text? Mencius replied to his mother that some of them could not be remembered clearly, but later they remembered.
After hearing this, Mencius' mother turned to get scissors and cut off the cloth she was knitting without hesitation. She said to Mencius seriously, "I have cut the cloth now." Do you think I can still knit? " Since this happened, Mencius won't forget the rest of the text in the middle of reciting it. The short story "Meng Mu Quits" warns us to be serious when studying, and not to be perfunctory.
The article "Meng Mu's Commandments" inspires us that no matter what we do, we should never give up halfway. We should be familiar with reading, read carefully, and remember one article after reading it. At the same time, Mencius' youth experience also tells us that as children, we should understand our parents and listen carefully to their inculcation. Because everything they do is for our good, we can't live up to their hearts. On human development: the purpose of education is to make children become social people through a series of studies. It takes a relatively long time for a person to grow into a member of human society from birth.
Children's ability to learn and participate in various activities in the real society, thus developing their sociality. Therefore, people's growth is more or less influenced by the environment, one is the environment of nature, the other is the environment of human society, and on this basis, they gain some common sense of life and social survival experience. The examples of Meng Mu's three movements show that the ancients have recognized the relationship between nature, society and education. The so-called "those who are near Zhu Zhechi and Mexico are black" is the case. The influence of environment on students is also positive: people always accept the influence of environment in social practice activities, and also transform the environment and themselves in the process of transforming the environment. Therefore, family environment, school environment and social environment have great influence on students' future.
In the story of Meng Mu's "Three Movements", parents' behavior, comments made in communication with others and their own education level have a direct impact on their children. The words and deeds of school teachers also have an influence on students; What some students can feel in society also has a great influence on students' three views. Education should be selective and dominant: from the education of Mencius' mother, we can know that we have chosen goodness and lived in it. For family education, Meng Mu chose her neighbors after moving three times, which was the mother's unique choice; For school education, it depends more on the training objectives that teachers grasp. Therefore, teachers' classroom play is of great help to students' future success. This is the inspiration from the "Three Major Movements in Meng Mu". Therefore, a good environment is of great help to children's growth, and parents should pay attention to their living environment.