When a child encounters an unsolvable problem, parents may say it, but the child still won't. He will ask the child directly, what did you do in class? You can't do such a simple question? How stupid! Wait, cause the child to worry about being scolded instead of thinking about doing the problem. Educating children in this wrong way will only make them farther and farther away from their parents, which is very unfavorable to the formation of their character. It will lead to the child's personality becoming very introverted, self-abased, lacking in self-confidence, not interested in anything, and feeling that he can't do anything well. When they want to do something, they will become passive and Nuo Nuo, timid and afraid to do it, even resist being close to others, afraid of socializing and so on.
For example, if the child doesn't do well in the exam, parents will ask the child calmly. Why did you fail the exam? Is this question too difficult? Are some knowledge points not very good at? It's okay. Mom can teach you. You have to believe in yourself. You can bake it next time. Come on, my baby is the best! This kind of encouraging education can not only improve children's self-confidence, but also make them make up their minds silently to ensure good results next time.
At the same time, they will be very confident, curious about the unknown, especially active when dealing with things, know how to take care of others' emotions, dare to socialize, and narrow the distance with others in their own way. Comparing these two educational methods, it is easy to find the difference between them and their influence on children. The wrong way of education will make children feel inferior, lack self-confidence, timid, afraid of socializing, and even make children go to extremes; The correct way of education will make children become enthusiastic, confident, dare to socialize and full of enthusiasm for things, which is conducive to their future development. Therefore, we must choose the right education methods to make children become better people.