Some teachers bring job burnout home, unconsciously demand themselves by teachers' standards, and compare the rules of teaching students with their own children; Some parents will show the authority of teachers at home, treat their children with condescending attitude from time to time, have enough patience with students at school, but lack respect and understanding for their children after returning home.

1. consciously aware of this phenomenon.

The phenomenon of "black under the lamp" is not uncommon in the circle of teachers. How to analyze and face it is the next focus. Therefore, teachers should have a clear understanding of this phenomenon, don't choose to escape or complain about children for the sake of saving face, and actively seek solutions.

2. Pay attention to the education of children.

At school, many teachers are tired of managing the children in the class. Sometimes when I want to have a rest when I get home, I often ignore the education of my children. Therefore, teachers should be aware of this. They are tired after a day's work, but they shouldn't take it out on their children. They should pay attention to their children's education, spend more time with them, know them better, be more patient and communicate with them.

3. Adjust your role mentality

Some teachers have a professional image at school, but when they get home, they are still in a strict state of facing their children and cannot adjust their roles in time. This role change is sometimes difficult. You can take a few deep breaths on the way home or before entering the house, and take off your professional clothes in time after entering the house. When working at home or on weekends, it is best to separate the office area from the living area so as to play different roles in different spaces.