Many parents want their children to be independent, but they are worried that their children will become stubborn, disobedient and stubborn. But many children are very helpful to children, so how can we help children to be independent?

1, try to inspire children.

When communicating with children, parents should try to use some euphemistic sentences to guide their children and let them think more and judge more. "Do you think the child did the right thing?" "How to do this?" This kind of expression can help children learn to think and express their views.

2. Let children express their ideas.

Many times parents ask their children to do things in a commanding tone; Many times, children have no chance to express their opinions. Every child has his own opinion. Parents should let their children express their ideas more and ask for their opinions more. Ask the children if they want to eat or play.

3. Listen to your child.

For some children, parents will think that children don't care; But these are the expressions of children's inner thoughts. Parents should understand their children's thoughts through their words; Guide and help children.

Step 4 choose independently

Whether eating or dressing, children will arrange it in advance; I hope my children will grow up according to adults' ideas. Parents should respect their children. Let children choose what to eat, wear and play, and cultivate their favorite interests.

5. Let children learn to say "no". The most obvious manifestation of children's opinions is that they can say "no", and children can clearly say "no" to some incorrect things. This means that children have their own judgments and will not blindly do similar things.

6. Play games with children

Play games with children, try to let children understand the core content of the game, stimulate their imagination and thinking ability, and be able to solve problems by themselves. Children's obedience can reassure parents, but if the children are too obedient; It is very likely that children will lose their self-judgment ability. Let children grow into opinionated and passive Nuo Nuo.