1, everything teachers do should be centered on promoting students' physical and mental health. To educate students and deal with their problems, we should not only proceed from the right or wrong behavior of students, but also consider how to deal with them so as not to hurt their personality and self-esteem and leave a shadow on their lives.
2. Respect students and treat them equally. As a teacher, don't be a superior judge or master in dealing with students' problems. This will keep students away from you, they will not believe you, they will be dissatisfied with your presentation, and your educational behavior will not be effective for them.
3. Try to let the students handle their own problems. Of course, in the initial stage, teachers should communicate with students in time and provide them with reference on how to deal with problems.
The following are some things I encountered in my two weeks as a class teacher for your reference.
Case 1
One day after class, I was on duty in the office, and students from another class came to see me.
Student: Teacher, I have something to tell you.
I smiled and asked: What is it? Go ahead.
Student: Someone in our dormitory traded his old lamp for my new one. The two desk lamps are basically the same in appearance, except that his desk lamp is noisy when it is on, which is not as new as mine. Please change it back for me.
Me: Since the looks are similar, did the student accidentally take it by mistake? Just explain it to him yourself and change it back.
Student: Teacher, I told him, but he denied it.
Me: How can you be sure that the lamp he is holding now is yours?
Student: I have a witness. A classmate in our dormitory knows that our lights are different.
Me: Does his desk lamp work?
Student: Yes.
Me: Do you think his behavior is good or bad?
The student thought for a moment: not good.
Me: If the teacher comes forward to let him admit his mistake and then change the desk lamp back, will it cause him psychological pressure and affect his later life?
The student paused: Yes.
Me: Then can you bear the loss and forget it happened?
Student: But teacher, I still want my desk lamp back.
Me: Do I have to come back?
The student nodded.
Me: Do you think it's possible? You called that classmate to a place where no one was there. You tell him that he is an excellent student and he will have a bright future as long as he works hard. Then tell him that he changed your lamp, which is a bad behavior. You can find a witness to prove that the lamp is yours. If this matter is handled by the teacher or proved by other students, it will leave a stain on his life and be unfavorable to his future development. You said you wanted to be friends with him and didn't want to do anything to hurt him. Just tell him that if he doesn't change your lamp, come to me again. Now I'll pretend I haven't heard of it, and don't tell anyone.
The student nodded: I see, teacher.
The next day, the student said to me happily: Teacher, he changed the lamp with me, thank me.
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One morning, a student found me: Teacher, I lost my school uniform. Please check it for me.
Me: Where did you lose it?
Student: In the dormitory, I saw it yesterday.
Me: When and where did you see your school uniform yesterday?
Student: I washed my school uniform yesterday morning and then dried it. In the afternoon, I put it away and put it on my bed. I saw it before I rested last night. I went to the dormitory after breakfast today and disappeared.
Me: Has anyone come to your dormitory outside these days?
Student: No.
Me: Are your school uniforms all the same in color and style?
The student nodded.
Me: Is it possible that a classmate accidentally took your school uniform and took it as his own?
Student: It's possible. Teacher, please find me.
Me: If the teacher asks, will the students be embarrassed and think that they have done something bad, will there be pressure? Can you ask yourself, when all the students in your dormitory go back to the dormitory at night, you can say that my school uniform is on the bed, and our school uniforms are the same. Did that classmate hear wrong? Please look at your school uniform. Be tactful
Student: I see, teacher.
Later, the students found me: thank you, teacher. I found my school uniform. The classmate in our dormitory took it by mistake, and he apologized to me.