In fact, in the minds of many of our parents, we always feel that we are parents and we are above ourselves, so our children must listen to us. In fact, the idea is that we want to use the authority of our parents to blackmail our children. This attitude of our parents is all wet. Our attitude will only make children dislike communicating with us and even become rebellious.

First, accept the imperfections of children.

Many of our parents' parenting ideas just want to control their children with their own authority. In fact, our parenting ideas are all wet. Children are also independent individuals, and we should also understand that each child has its own advantages and disadvantages. We shouldn't always be obsessed with children's pigtails, but as parents, we need to see their bright spots and learn to accept their imperfections. Because every child is not perfect, every child also has many shortcomings; And every child will make mistakes, because the growth of children is a process of constantly making mistakes. Therefore, as parents, we need to accept our children, instead of using their parents' authority to blackmail them.

Second, respect all aspects of children.

Although children are very young, they are also independent individuals. As parents, we also need to respect them. Only when our parents respect their children will children respect our parents. Only when children and parents respect each other can we establish a harmonious wife relationship and have good parent-child communication. If we always want to threaten our children with the authority of our parents, they will think that our parents don't respect them, they will become unwilling to communicate with their parents, and even have rebellious psychology.

Once again, patiently accompany your child to grow up.

In the process of children's growth, they are like a small sapling, needing sunshine and rain and dew, and only our parents can give them sunshine and rain and dew. Therefore, parents' companionship with their children is like the relationship between the sea and the boat, and the two are inseparable. Only when parents accept their children with heart and give them a free and healthy growth environment can children sail freely in the sea like a boat. Therefore, as parents, we must be patient and give our children warmth and love in time.

Children grow only once, and there is no turning back. Therefore, as parents, we must be cautious, patiently accompany and care for our children, let them get love and warmth from their parents, and grow into an honest, responsible and responsible good child.