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How much influence does parents' incorrect outlook on life have on their children?
How big is the influence of parents' incorrect views on children's life? Parents' three views of the movie affect the pattern of children. The pattern of a child determines the direction of his life. Let's take a look at this article. The tourist attractions and traffic routes in the summer vacation have basically become the show places for children and parents to visit. Those parents whose views are incorrect make people feel sympathy, but they also make people feel angry. On the high-speed train, I was sleepy and woke up with a loud noise. It turned out that the passengers were waiting in the aisle of the station with their luggage. A little girl about two years old knocked down a suitcase taller than her. The suitcase landed at the girl's feet, blocking half the aisle. Behind the girl, there is a place to pick up boiling water, and passengers are picking up water. The owner of the box was frightened and squatted down to check whether the little girl was injured and protect her from burns. After two or three minutes, the little girl's mother rushed over, and the owner of the box reprimanded: "Please look after your child! If such a big suitcase is pushed down, aren't you afraid of hitting the children? " The girl's mother wryly pulled the girl to her side and left. Don't apologize. You're welcome. Then, the little girl began to run around the carriage again, touching anything new when she saw it, taking something new, touching A's glass, grabbing B's knee and pinching C's snacks, which made many passengers frown. My mother has been watching tenderly, and her eyes are full of maternal brilliance. Suddenly, the little girl grabbed a passenger's mobile phone, and her mother grabbed it as if she had been electrocuted and threw it back into the passenger's hand. I didn't apologize to the passengers either, just patted the girl's ass. "Who told you to grab your aunt's mobile phone!" The little girl began to cry loudly, and her mother immediately picked her up and looked at the girl's crying face with loving eyes: "Yo yo, is it open again?" Just three times. Twice? "Then, I gave the girl a big kiss on the face." Our baby is the best! At this time, an old man in the next seat sincerely said to the mother, "Your child will have a future! Naughty children will succeed in the future! " The girl's mother smiled proudly, her face and eyes were full of praise, but she pretended to be modest: "What's the promise? Nothing! Especially overbearing, with her grandmother! " This conversation makes me uncomfortable, and the child's behavior becomes easy to understand. Because, what kind of parents and children. If parents' views are not correct, it is difficult for children to grow up honestly. I grew up in the countryside, and it is easy to understand their logic: children who are too honest and too timid are easy to frame themselves. When they grow up, they usually have no future. Only by being brave can they do great things. However, the little girl showed no audacity, but lawlessness and no bottom line. Looking at the old at the age of three, I dare not imagine what kind of adult this girl will become and what kind of return society will give her. If parents' views are not correct, children's future may not be hopeless, but one thing is certain: children's growth path will be particularly bumpy. Either agree with the chaotic life in the distorted three views; If you resist, you will try your best to get out of your parents' three views all your life.