The answer may be reasonable. Both daughters became high flyers of Harvard University. Sophia, the eldest daughter, did well in the exam in high school until she was successfully admitted to Harvard in colleges and universities. After that, the graduate students of Yale Law School also had a good trip. Her beautiful self-confidence has always influenced the people around her, and then she chose to join the army with her own opinions, and was hailed as a second-class lieutenant with excellent grades and extraordinary perseverance.
Daughter Lulu and eldest daughter Sophia have different personalities. In adolescence, she has the potential to become a rebellious girl, which makes Tiger Mother a headache. Tiger Mom once recalled: Unforgettable means that when she was 16 years old, she appeared in the restaurant and dropped the glass all over the floor due to long-term emotional accumulation.
The safety accident also made Tiger Mother rethink her teaching methods. She is not angry with her daughter. Children of this age will have a strong sense of self. With the development, our own teaching methods are constantly improving, and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is not blindly strict. Daughter Lulu has gradually grown into a enterprising, confident and generous girl, and finally has a satisfactory ending. She graduated from Harvard University successfully and is preparing for further study in advance.
Many families will adopt the form of "tiger-style cultural education", but how to grasp the boundaries and solve the details is not something that ordinary people can do. Successful "tiger-style cultural education" is not a dark road, so follow the study and training.
What are the advantages of her "tiger-style cultural education"? 1. Set an example
"Mom and Dad are better teachers for children" is not a lie. From the stage of learning English, the baby is constantly imitating mom and dad, and every move of mom and dad determines the child's behavior and habitual thinking mode. Similarly, although the tiger mother is strict in discipline, a large part of the reason is that she is an excellent woman, self-discipline is reflected in her body, and she never wastes time on her mobile phone. When you set the rules for children, you will first ensure that you play a good role model.
2. The necessity of participation
Even when the child is training in the middle of the night, the tiger mother will always be around. My mother, who usually looks extremely tough, is also a mother with funny skills. Sometimes, when children feel ridiculously stressed, Tiger Mother can let them hold their noses and say, "Take a breath." When it comes to reasonable arrangement of time, Tiger Mother will bring different experiences to her two daughters in her spare time. Take children to play golf, cook Chinese food, travel, etc. This kind of interaction will enhance the adhesion between them, and children will gradually realize their mother's good intentions.
3. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude
Chinese and western teaching have their own advantages, the western way is "stocking" and the eastern way is "nurturing". However, a child's personality can't be summarized in one sentence. Parents should also improvise in time. It's time to put it down and collect it. Water more when it is dry, and prune frequently when it is forked, so that children's saplings can grow taller and more upright.
Tiger mother once said that/kloc-feeding before the age of 0/8 is for the free-range rearing of children after adulthood. No matter which way you educate your child, it is to make your child a lonely and happy person. Perhaps, before educating children, we should learn how to be a famous parent.