1. Establish a good communication mode: establish an open and trusting communication channel with your children, so that your children can feel your care and support.

2. Respect children's personality: Every child is a unique individual and needs to be respected and understood. Don't try to impose your ideas on children, but respect their choices and decisions.

3. Give positive feedback: When children make correct behaviors, giving affirmation and rewards in time can enhance their self-confidence and enthusiasm.

4. Cultivate children's independence: let children learn to think and solve problems by themselves, and cultivate their autonomy and independence.

5. Establish family rules: Make some simple and clear family rules to let children know what can and can't be done. At the same time, we should also abide by these rules.

6. Help children establish correct values: Through education and guidance, help children establish correct outlook on life, values and morality.

7. Pay attention to children's emotional needs: understand children's emotional changes, give timely care and support, and help children deal with emotional problems.